Student and Single mother to triplets needs help.
Oh my goodness me. Well this has taken a lot to create so please no judgement and we are NOT expecting a penny, but we have had many requests asking for our PayPal account info and our address so they can help us out as a family. Which has been overwhelming and just shows how much good there is in the world. A few people have got a bit annoyed because I won’t accept help. (There are lots of worthy causes I know, this is just up here if people want) please try not to judge. I’m terrified of doing this.
A bit about us if you’ve stumbled across this page and not seen our instagram. I’m (Mummy) Jessica and my sons are Arthur, Brodie and Carter (aka Forest, Hunter and Oakley). We live a nice, busy life mostly outdoors. We love to visit friends regularly and explore lots of new place. I’m a single parent and I study two courses: a BEd undergrad degree in Primary Education, initial teacher training with a specialism in Special Educational Needs and so a level three leader ship course in Forest School. The boys are happy, healthybouncy two year old triplets. Born at 34 weeks . They have always only had one parent- me. We were okay at the beginning of their life with finances, lots of help and I had some savings from work. I worked up until the day I had them. Things have not been easy financially along the way, students are not known for being rich , neither are mums- but I made the choice to study so I can earn and provide a better life later on. Anyway. We’ve hit a spot of bother, we hit it in March, like a domino effect we now find our self needing allot with no way to pay. This month (May) is where I’ve really noticed how low on funds we are. So I’m reaching out for help because I’ll do anything to help my children. But please if this isn’t the cause for you - donate else where - and only ever donate what you comfortably can!
Any way... if we get any funds or if people do volunteer we’ll pop it on our Instagram @triplets_in_cornwall to show how people have helped.
Why we’ve set this up? Why we have got into a pickle? There are a few reasons, and I’ll try to keep it brief and am happy to provide evidence for anything (within reason) I didn’t want to get this public.
One of the main “umbrella reasons” is because of covid. Before we had lots of physical help, friends, family, nursery and even a charity called “Home Start” used to come most weeks to watch the boys/ help with house work so I could have an hour or so off/ work with them to get on top. We are paying more than £50 a month for electric since being home. Probably about £100 more on food/milk/groceries a week. There’s more and if you want to know more about our situation, message me (being kind).
I will do anything to make sure my children have the best. Only donate if you are happy to and you comfortably can.
Thank you.
Of course there are other bits and bobs, we have a couple amazing triplet mum friends who have boys who donate clothes to the chaps and we do buy a couple new in between which is nice.
best wishes everyone. thank you for reading this far and thank you for thinking of us!
Please don’t feel bad for us at all, and also don’t be angry at us for asking for help, This has taken allot and I don’t want any ill feelings. There are so many worthy causes out there! Pick which one is right for you and donate what you can.
I’ve only done this because so many people have asked how they can help,
I will do my best to reply to messages whilst we can but it’s a hard time at the moment. We've got Grandmas funeral on the 1st June (if the car gets sorted)
thank you for your understanding, best wishes
Jessica (AKA Mummymummymummymummymummymummu) Arthur, Brodie andCarter (AKA ABC)
