Brain surgery!

Hi my name is Stacy, I'm 23 years old and found out today that I have to have brain surgery due to Chiari Malformation type 1. It was sprung on me all at once and I have to have it within a month max. My fiance` and I do not have family where we live, it's just us. We have a 1 year old son that needs care and I cannot lift him for 6 weeks minimum. My fiancé is going to be there for the surgery but cannot take to much time off obviously we have bills. We would like to fly his mom here to help for some of the time. We will have to hire help for the other remaining time. Anything will help us make it thru! Thank you!