Please help Destiny

Now 4 month old. Destiny was born with ebsteine anomaly, pulmonary atresia and a collapsed lung, a DDT from a minor surgery . she was born at 37 weeks. and spent a total of 29 days in the NICU. because of her condition she is small for her age. She is followed by a whole entire team of doctors which some time can be very hard and stressful  on me because I have 3 other children. between all her doctors visit home visits and having to monitor her oxygen levels and administering her lovenox shots I am unable to work right now.destiny has been admitted in the hospital a total of 5 times already. and waiting for open heart surgery where they will go in and repair the tissue.   all my emergency funds that I had saved has ran out and this is my reason for coming here to seek help any help would be greatly appreciated. Please any help I am desperate