my husband michaels terminal cancer

my husband mike was diagnosed with kidney and bladder cancer 3 years ago. they removed his right kidney then did a bcg for his bladder for 2 1/2 months. all was going great then one one of his visits his urine test came back abnormal. mike had developed a new cancer called renal pelvic carcinoma. it spread to all his lymph nodes and almost every organ. it thank god did not spread to his bones YET.  There is no cure for this. we have been to many many many places including the mayo clinic.  his only option is the highest chemo they have. but people with two kidneys 26%  of them get kidney failure which means dialasys. he has one kidney which means he will get kidney failure.  his cancer does not grow like most cancers so they can just cut them out his cancer are little tiny specs which cannot be detected until they start to clump together. they spread like wild fire. he is in a massive amount of pain and can barely urinate. he will soon have to have a colostomy bag. we have chosen not to take the chemo route because the bad way outways the good by a mile.  we have chosen holoistic route. without chemon the cancer dr gave 8-10 months with chemo he will get maybe 12 months.  my husband has worked his whole life. im talking from the age of 15 to 59. he's a carpenter/plumber. he was in the marines for awhile until he got very sick with some flesh eating disease. they could not help him then even after all the years he served for his, mine and your country. they honorable discharged him and pretty much washed their hands of him. he doesnt have much time left and we have two beautiful children Abby our oldest at 8 and Archie at 7.  i dont know how much they will remember about him but i will never ever let them forget what a great man he was!!! i will be a widow soon and im deathly scared i will not be able to support them. im a licensed cosmetologist but in reality i dont make shit. sorry for the swear word but it's true. i'm asking my fellow Americans and people who either have been through this or have some compassion in their hearts to please help. if you need proof i will provide. i've got the doctors note telling of his terminal cancer. im NOT a scammer!!!!! this is the truth and i understand that there are a lot of people on here lying just for money. i will put a picture of the doctors diagnosis so everyone can see. i will however black out my address. theres no need for everone to know where we live. we are a blue collar family and we dont have much. i just need help for my children for food and clothes and maybe someday hopefully college. we have mounting medical bills and other debts such as electric trash, property taxes car payments i mean the list goes on. im begging you please have faith and help this family out. prayers are also very welcomed and very much appreciated too. everthing helps. we live in Minnesota and have a small house. if i reach my goal the money will go for everything i have stated in this bio. no money will be foolishly spent. every penny will be accounted for and spent wisely. i know its hard to tell if someones telling the truth or just being evil and greedy . but please be rest assured im telling the honest to god truth. people kept telling me to do this and i kept saying no that other more deserving people need it more but they are right we do need the help. im having trouble uploading pictures. thebonly way is through facebook which would be best because i've got pictures of mikevwhen he first had his kidney rmoved and other documents. so please be patient ive only done this one time before for my best friends son who got severly burned and that was a few years ago. so im trying to get them up.