Hello Friends, Family, Supporters and Strangers. My name is Lolita Frazier. I am a Runway Trainer |Confidence Coach and the creator of Strut Talk Runway tHERapy program. I am also the mother of a murdered child.
On September 28, 2016 I received the phone that No Mother wants to receive, a young lady frantically screaming that ”JORDAN GOT SHOT” I lost it to say the least. I couldn't listen, I passed the phone to my daughter and ran outside and prayed.... Asking God to cover him and to please let him live... Unfortunately that wasn't the case, he didn't make it, my beautiful Sun transitioned and took a piece of my heart with him. It was unbelievable (and still is) to me that, my Sun died. My heart was broken I was numb @ the fact that I had to plan a Funeral for my very own child, my baby boy. I honestly didn't think I would be able to get through this, But God....
Although it was was a tough situation, I realized that I was tougher and that I had to be strong for him. As I started to try and put the pieces to my life back together again, I created ”Strut Talk Runway Therapy” As a runway trainer I teach people to stand firm in their truth and here I am finding myself living a lie. I was pretending to be ok, because I didn't want to be known as ” The lady who's sun was killed” I started to to think about the amount of hurt and pain that I was walking in and couldn't help but think the same about the person who killed my Sun. It was at that moment that things clicked, I realized that it was bigger than the gun it was the hurt person walking in pain (who happen to have a gun) that killed my Sun. Since the loss of my Sun in 2016, my family has experienced this hurt again. In 2019 My beautiful niece Jocelyn Frazier (26) loss her life to gun violence |Domestic leaving behind a 2 year old Sun and in 2020 my youngest nephew Dylan was also shot and killed leaving behind a precious 1 year old daughter just days after her first bday!
I created this Go Fund me because i want to do more for those who find themselves walking in my shoes. No mother | father should have to worry about how they're going to lay their child to rest, in addition to paying rent| Morgage, food, travel exlenses, clothing and everything else in between. The reality is not everyone has or can afford life insurance. When I loss my Sun I had unfortunately lost my life insurance 3 months prior due to my company closing. No parent expects to be in this horrible situation, but the fact is as long as people are walking in pain and held hostage to it IT WILL! . I am on a mission to help people heal. i want to help save your Sun & Support those who need me, But I can't do it alone, I NEED YOUR HELP!!
Strut talk runway therapy has helped thousands of people Strut thru their pain! We are putting in the work.
Not just mothers of murdered children, but also breast cancer survivors, at risk youth, homeless and everyday people who are walking in pain caused by life challenges. This is bigger than Gun violence, this is about hurt people hurting people.
Help me continue my advocacy to assist those who's lives have been affected by the hands of a hurt person by supporting this cause. I have connected with mothers who are living without their children from all of the world, they need us! The children who are left behind, NEED US!!
These funds will be used to assist families with funeral expenses, shelter, food, clothing, tuition, counseling, advocacy, awareness events, children left behind, Holiday family adoption traveling expenses and more. My ultimate goal is the open A safe home for people to come and release, reflect, reinvent, realize, accept, forgive and Strut thru whatever hurt and pain it is that they are walking in. The less hurt people we have in this world, the more Sun’s and Daughters we will have alive.
I do this for my Sun, I do this For your Suns & daughters!
If you are a mother | father(or know one) who's lives have been affected by senseless Gun Violence, @ the hands of a hurt person .
This is for US!!!
We all have a story, this is just a chapter...You do not have to walk in the hurt and pain caused by this situation, allowing it to cause you to be BITTER, you can look at life as ”purpose” and trust the process and allow it to make you BETTER!! Why walk in it, when you can STRUT thru it..
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