Memorial stone for my son's grave

My 21 year old son died in his dorm at NYU while in his senior year of college, he worked so hard to get there and achieved an academic scholarship. He was the sweetest, most caring and wonderful child parents could ask for. He was working towards a bachelors degree in mathematics and finance as well as being fluent in French. I have two other younger sons and the cost of the funeral alone has taken a toll on me financially, so far I have spent $18,000 on credit cards to pay for it. I am asking for a small donation to help me pay for the memorial bronze headstone that Pinelawn cemetery only allows to mark the grave.  It's cost is $2,188.00 and I would appreciate any help towards that amount that anyone can help me with. The picture is from their brochure and I will provide the information to call them to verify that amount if you need it. I'm not one to ask for money and typically just pay for the things I or my children need but this would help ease the burden a lot. Thank you.


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