Shelley's burial fund

At about 12 p.m. on my 50th birthday, I got the dreaded call that my sister, Shelley, had passed away unexpectedly.  One of my least favorite things is asking for help, but as the day has gone on, I've realized that there is no money to bury her, and she didn't have an insurance policy. She never wanted to be creamated, so I can't see myself doing that to her; instead, I've decided to have a small graveside service for her, but that, too, costs $4,225.00 ~ money which I don't have. 
I hate asking for money, but need to reach out to my family and friends.  If you can donate, any amount, it would be appreciated more than words could ever begin to express.
Thank you all for keeping me and my family in your prayers.