disabled mother of 4 loses husband

Hi my name is Jill ParascandoloLadonea. I have four children ages 13, 11, 5,and 1 year. I have been very sick with an environmental illness called Multiple Chemical Sensitivity Syndrome for 7 years due to a chemical accident from being a hair dresser.  The reason I am asking for help is my husband passed away suddenly on Thanksgiving morning of this year. He was the one that took care of us financially while I took care of the house and kids. I am trying to find a job I can do from home while I wait to see if there is hope of getting any disability for myself. My illness makes it that I cannot work  out in public due to severe allergies and breathing problems. It is like living in a bubble half the time which is exetremely hard. I also have to wear a mask when I go out in public. Thank you for reading my story. Jill