<div>We are nearing the end of our go fund me campaign. Thank you to everyone who has donated thus far.it has been a very long process.  Because of the weather, Darrin is not able to be laid to rest until the ground thaws. We are anticipating May. If anyone would like to donate, the campaign will remain open through the end of the month. Thank you so very much for your love and support. We miss our buddy!   Our beloved son Darrin Douglas LaDue, 25, of Endicott, NY entered heaven with angels beside him on Sunday, December 7th, 2025. Darrin was born on June 16th, 2000, so that he would be home on his brother Will's first day of elementary summer vacation. Dare Bear, D-man, The Dude—as he was affectionately known—had been special all his life, not just because of profound autism, but because of the lessons he taught us. While Darrin was unable to speak, he could comprehend and enjoy simple conversation, as evidenced by his laughs, smiles, giggles, verbal gestures, and simple sign language. He had the sweetest smile, goofiest laugh, and the brightest blue eyes you ever would see. He would gladly give you a high five, and often they were stingers. Darrin's all-time favorite hobby was eating. He loved food—period. Even dry ramen. The only thing Darrin would refuse to eat was oatmeal. In that sense, I guess he was typical. He loved rocking to Elmo's 'Call Me Maybe' and, of course, the theme song (on repeat). He enjoyed his car rides, especially with his dad, and would bolt out the door as soon as he pulled up in front of the house, sometimes without shoes. Although he was in a man's body, he was a child—a precious boy who looked in wonder and excitement at anything out of the ordinary, and nothing went past him—especially a chocolate bar. Although Darrin is no longer with us physically, he remains in our hearts. He has given us the lesson of unconditional love. Let his spirit continue to inspire us to be better people, to look at others without judgment, and to demonstrate compassion for all. Darrin will be laid to rest beside his grandparents Carl and Marlene in Maine Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to assist in the proper burial of our precious son. We love you, Darrin. You will never be forgotten and forever in our hearts.
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Love for Darrin. Please help us lay our son to rest.

Love for Darrin. Please help us lay our son to rest.

Still $1,300 to go. Help us build momentum.