Hello, My name is Diana and I am raising these funds on behalf of my children and myself. Tragically, Kerry passed unexpectedly right after his 66th birthday on 08DEC. I have been in such shock and grief with our four children and three grandchildren, our cats and dog that I have not been able to even announce his passing to most of our friends. It simply does not seem real and I feel I am living a nightmare from when I found him to trying to be strong for everyone so I can be there for my kids and animals.

I have been with Kerry for over 28 years and our youngest boy just turned 13 and will not have a father to raise him. My husband suffered from many physical, emotional, and mental issues for years and his poor body just gave out. He was such a good dad and loving husband and friend. He loved animals so much he was a vegan since he was 16 years old and really loved connecting with nature. He was a photographer by trade and education but when we lost everything in the housing crash of 2007, we left CA and moved to NC where he became a stay home dad so I could work. This money I am requesting will be used for treating his remains and getting them shipped to CA where we will fly out as a family in January to spread his ashes in Malibu, which was his favorite place in the whole world. In addition, this money will help me get back on my feet. I am ashamed that my husband took care of all of the bills and money and I can't access these funds until I set up an executor with the county which won't be until early Feb. Meanwhile, I have so many bills to pay and I need to get my home in a state I can sell it. Currently it is very old and shabby and can't be sold as is so I need help so we can get out of the home he passed away in asap. The house is full of to many memories and it is really hard for me and my kids staying here. If there are any remaining funds left over, I want to raise awareness on mental health in his name since there is a lot of stigma for men suffering from extreme depression, anxiety etc.

So much love to everyone who is also suffering like me and my kids during a season which should be filled with happiness but instead is filled with so much grief since none of us got to say goodbye to him. The funds will also help cover the grief counseling we need to get assistance with.

If not money, your prayers are so welcomed as well since that also is huge having open hearts of support during this horrific, tragic time in our lives.

God Bless to anyone who reads this and can send support.

Much love,

Diana and family