Help with Jay's Gender Affirming Surgery!
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Hi there, if you haven't met me before, my name is Jay and I am a Non-binary human living in Toronto, patiently waiting for lockdowns to end so I can get back to tattooing and bartending.
As indicated in the picture, I have way too much titty. So much that it makes me feel uncomfortable almost every day. I spend more time squishing them flat under my clothes and sweating through extra layers than time spent breathing free and easy in my own skin. That's not cool!
Actual words I have used to describe my chest:
"They make me feel like a cow with chest udders. Moooooooo"
"I wish to only have a back butt, not an additional front butt."
In order to turn back the puberty dial on my mammary glands, I have to pay lots of money to a surgeon who will yeet the extraneous teet for me.
I have been using several silly sentences and making jokes because I am generally very uncomfortable with asking for help. Thank you for clicking to this fundraiser and reading my words and allowing me to practice being vulnerable and asking for help. We are all humans and all deserve to ask for help when we need it, and part of doing this is me reminding myself that *I* am included in that too.
So! This is officially me asking for some help in funding this surgery and covering my costs while I am in recovery. I am lining up a surgery date for the end of January/beginning of February. The $4500 I am asking for will cover:
- Half of the $5085 fee for my surgery (I want to pay for the other half myself. Think of it as I will pay for left tit and y'all are covering the right tit.)
- A month of rent, being $1450
- Food costs because experts say we need to eat to live so I suppose I will do that
As indicated in the picture, I have way too much titty. So much that it makes me feel uncomfortable almost every day. I spend more time squishing them flat under my clothes and sweating through extra layers than time spent breathing free and easy in my own skin. That's not cool!
Actual words I have used to describe my chest:
"They make me feel like a cow with chest udders. Moooooooo"
"I wish to only have a back butt, not an additional front butt."
In order to turn back the puberty dial on my mammary glands, I have to pay lots of money to a surgeon who will yeet the extraneous teet for me.
I have been using several silly sentences and making jokes because I am generally very uncomfortable with asking for help. Thank you for clicking to this fundraiser and reading my words and allowing me to practice being vulnerable and asking for help. We are all humans and all deserve to ask for help when we need it, and part of doing this is me reminding myself that *I* am included in that too.
So! This is officially me asking for some help in funding this surgery and covering my costs while I am in recovery. I am lining up a surgery date for the end of January/beginning of February. The $4500 I am asking for will cover:
- Half of the $5085 fee for my surgery (I want to pay for the other half myself. Think of it as I will pay for left tit and y'all are covering the right tit.)
- A month of rent, being $1450
- Food costs because experts say we need to eat to live so I suppose I will do that
- Bills and expenses (internet, phone, cat food, delivery costs because COVID/I am healing and it hurts to move)
Any donation helps and is met with all my appreciation. The fact you are choosing to help me, especially considering the year we have all had, gives me feelings that I don't have words for.
Thank you. Thankyouthankyouthankyou!!!
Much love,
Jay
Any donation helps and is met with all my appreciation. The fact you are choosing to help me, especially considering the year we have all had, gives me feelings that I don't have words for.
Thank you. Thankyouthankyouthankyou!!!
Much love,
Jay
Organizer
Jay Deszeld
Organizer
Toronto, ON