Help with Jay's funeral expenses

From Becky:

I lost my baby girl. 

Jay struggled with depression since she was 13 years old. She spent years learning to live with and fighting against the difficult pain. She had many ups and downs. Through it all she continued to put her faith in Jesus and love the people around her. Early Friday morning, she took her own life. 

I need your help putting Jay to rest. You gifts will go towards funeral and memorial service costs.

The unexpected loss of Jay has been unbearably difficult. Jay was one of the kindest and gentlest human beings. She cared deeply about making you feel loved. She was the type of person that would save up money only to spend it on others. She treasured giving. She got excited over the littlest things and would make you feel like a champion over the smallest victories in life. 


It’s not only emotionally difficult, it has been a financial stess as well. While I am mourning the loss of my daughter, we need to make plans for her burial and memorial service. This is an added stress in the midst of difficult pain. 

We are blessed to have $6750 to help with the cost to bury Jay and host a memorial. But we are $7,500 short of honoring her. 

Your gifts will help us pay for:
- burial costs
- plot
- casket
- plaque
- mortuary and cemetery services
- host a memorial service. 

Along with your condolences and prayers, many have asked how they can help. You could help us honor Jay by giving towards her funeral and memorial cost. Any little bit goes a long way.

This isn’t easy for me to ask in this difficult time. I only want to honor my sweet girl.


While Jay lost the fight against depression, God is victorious. She is free from pain and rejoicing with her Father in heaven. We are sad but we trust in God's goodness. 

Please contact us if you'd like to give by check. 

Thank you for helping us honor Jay.
Note: My son, Oscar, is helping me oversee the crowdfunding campaign details, including the distribution of the funds.