I am choosing to stay anonymous to protect my child and myself (legally). I’m reaching out with a humble heart as a mother who has fought hard to protect her child and start over from scratch.

I recently left a marriage that was emotionally ( with me) and physically (with child) abusive—to both me and my child, who has special needs. For years, I stayed silent, hoping things would change, but the safety and well-being of my child gave me the strength to finally break free.

I truly believed that, by stepping out and doing what was right, I would be protected—legally and financially.

But the outcome has been heartbreaking.

Despite documented incidents of abuse (recordings, video, affadavits, messages, police report), intimidation, and threats—including a visible bruise on my child's arm after a visit with his father, the outcome did not result in the best interest of my child. My ex walked away with ALL of our finances and unfavorable custody terms. I was even told I’ll be losing my car by the end of September, which is a critical lifeline for transporting my child to therapies, appointments, school and work which I am rebuilding. (This car my ex currently makes payments on but stated he will not make any payment after September and Ill have to payoff the car to keep it or refinance it. Im slowly increasing my income after sacrificing my career for my child but not credible enough to refinance. The only option is payoff or lose it) The car is essential need.

I’ve never imagined asking for help like this, but I’m doing it for the little one. (4yrs old) I’m working hard to rebuild our lives, but we urgently need support right now.

All funds raised will go directly toward:

paying off the car or put towards a different car

If any extra support, that will go towards:

Ensuring we maintain stability while we heal and move forward

If you’ve ever been a parent, or know the power of a fresh start, please consider helping us. Even a small donation helps bring us closer to safety, healing, and hope.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading, sharing, and supporting.

With gratitude,

A loving mother and child