My boyfriend and I both live with abusive narcissists and are currently struggling to save up enough money to move out anywhere. I started living with him after my father shoved me because of an argument with my sister, and that was just the tipping point. After I moved in with my boyfriend I realized his family is toxic as well. We tried to deal with everything but it was too much so I tried to move back home, only to learn my parents had not only gotten rid of my bed, but my entire room. I ended up staying with my boyfriend and his family, which is where we're staying now, but things have just gotten worse. His family put a camera up in the livingroom without telling us until "the next day" but we cannot know for sure when it was actually put up. We've caught his family sneaking around the house and listening outside of our bedroom door.