help move temporarily disabled out of toxic home

hello, my name is valarie webb and i got into a car accident on August 30th, 2019 where i got hit head on by someone who was clearly under the influence but was not searched nor tested. they got to walk free at 65 years old while me being a mere 18 years old at the time with no pre existing conditions or bodily issues, was now disabled on my whole right side. i was not able to walk around my house, shower, or brush my teeth without having some kind of help getting to and from by a cane, chair or any other means. i have many injuries on my spinal cord & had a very severe concussion which have caused limited mobility & a lot of pain and loss of feeling on my right side (including arm & leg and joints). i also now have chronic back & hip pain which i had never had to experience until now. i was pushed away by doctors for almost a year until someone finally helped direct me to a chiropractor and physical therapist that knew how to help me. i had gone to countless doctors and hospitals begging for them to help me in so much pain & numbness. all they wanted to do was medicate me when i wanted a solution so i could live my life normally and not have the mobility of an 80 year old. before the wreck, i was working constantly day in and day out to try and save up money to move out of my abusive household & to start paying to get my esthetician’s license. things have only gotten worse since i have been disabled, with my mom scolding me for having to take me to the doctors for something that wasn’t my fault, and me not being able to drive because of my physical conditions. i would also get yelled & screamed at for crying and being in pain and told it was all my fault. i have been struggling a lot mentally and therapy was very limited due to understaffing at my therapy office. one 30 min appt every three months. so i would try to talk to my mom and all it would end up is in a screaming match. i have expressed how this has made me very suicidal & she agreed that i should go ahead and do it so she doesn’t have to hear me talk about it anymore. i wish more than anything i was able to go to work to be able to work towards my goals in my career, but i have to take care of my health and body first. which obviously isn't a priority to my mother. she has threatened to kick me out on the streets multiple times even tho i have no friends or family to rely on. i attend physical therapy and the chiropractor usually 4/5 days out of the week and am starting a new therapy program where i will hopefully get the help i need. i have a legal case, but it doesn’t look very fortunate for me in how its going to turn out. my medical bills will be paid, but i will probably not get any compensation for missing this much work or having to deal with lifelong injuries. i am trying my best to keep my head up high and try to navigate these rough waters during this time, but i am stuck financially and need your help. i never ever ask for help but this seems like the last option i have as nobody else is willing to help me out and help me get back on my own two feet. i would’ve created this earlier, but like i said i really hate asking for peoples help especially in the middle of a pandemic where funds are tight. any amount helps & will go straight into my funds for school & housing so i can try and start my recovery process without the mental stress and burden of having to live everyday in toxicity. thank you so much for all the support & i am so grateful for the people who read this and are willing to make an effort to help me. i am over thankful for any and every donation. thank you and may god bless you and your family.
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