<div><strong>Help Me Save Ember – A Mother’s Plea for <em>Justice</em> and <em>Safety</em>. </strong>


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<div>My name is Rhianna Baldwin, and I’m a devoted mother fighting to bring my almost 9 month old Baby boy, Ember, home.


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<div>On May 4th, 2025, something happened that no parent should ever endure. While trying to take Ember on a simple walk to the neighborhood park, I was forcibly separated from him by my boyfriend’s family. I had already called 911 because I felt unsafe during a verbal dispute—but before help could arrive, I was surrounded, grabbed, and torn away from the stroller. Ember was taken from me and rushed into their house. I was left outside, begging, pleading, and recording—<em>terrified</em> and <em>powerless</em>. 


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<div>They tried to paint me as unstable, even claiming I was on drugs and a danger to my own child. None of it was true. 


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<div>The officer who pressed charges, saw straight through the lies told me outright: <strong>this was a disturbing attempt to control me as a mother</strong>—<strong><em>not a lawful act</em></strong>. My boyfriend’s father was arrested for assault. 


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<div>Ember was returned to me…<em>that time</em>.


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<div>But the warning signs were there. I was urged to file immediately for legal protection—but I didn’t. I was scared. I wanted to trust my boyfriend. He told me that if I filed a protected order, his family would kick me out. I was 9 weeks pregnant at the time, with no money, no car, no family, no resources in Texas, and no resources to get out of Texas. 


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<div>The next afternoon I started spotting. I initially was scared of how miscarriages are handled in Texas, and thought I could handle it myself because I’d had a previous brutal stillbirth. The bleeding got worse over the week, and by the time I was so sick and could of used medical intervention, my boyfriend had realized this would increase charges on his father, and did not want me to report it. 


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<div>This is when I started realizing things <em>were not right.</em>
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<div><span>I started to pressure my boyfriend to move us back home, or to my family system in Florida. He would tell me “Yes, Eventually” but deep in my gut I knew he was lying. I told him I didn’t feel safe, or supported, and</span><strong> I didn’t recognize him anymore</strong><span>.</span><br />
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<div>I stayed, bleeding from the trauma, both physical &amp; emotional, I had no where else to go. 


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<div>This wasn’t the first time having an incident. When Ember was just 6 weeks old, my boyfriend’s mother took him while I was sleeping, without permission from me. I was recovering from an emergency C-section, and she told me I didn’t matter—because I was “just” the mother. Now, this is the third time they’ve tried to take Ember. 
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<div>And this time—they’ve kept him.


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<div>I haven’t seen my baby since May 22nd, 2025 at 6:00 PM.


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<div>SAPD, and BCSO keep telling me this is a civil issue. 


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<div>I found a custody lawyer, and was told jurisdiction is in Ember &amp; I’s home state, Virginia. I cannot file for emergency custody, because I cannot file for normal custody, because we need an AOP. My boyfriend can’t apply for an AOP, because he is not the father. 
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<div>I am still married to my husband in Virginia, we never separated when I got with my boyfriend. Ember only came along 4 months into our relationship, and I had been living there so I stayed. Life is messy, and things happen. Since Ember was born during that marriage, the law recognizes my husband as the legal father. 
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<div>Before anything can move forward in custody court, all four of us must go to Virginia for court appointed paternity and custody proceedings. But I cannot leave without Ember safely in my care.


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<div>I am completely cut off from my family and support system. I fear I was even moved out here to San Antonio, Texas intentionally to isolate me with this exact goal.


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<div>I have exhausted every resource, phone call, every possible route. 


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<div>I am being mishandled by local law enforcement refusing to acknowledge me or my husbands marriage, and focusing on the fact my boyfriend has possession.


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<div><strong><em>I need help. </em></strong>


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<div>I have now retained a new attorney—someone who <em>truly</em> believes in this case and wants to help me bring Ember home quickly, safely, legally, and then hold the system accountable for enabling what they’ve done. 


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<div>Pressing kidnapping charges on my boyfriend, and suing the San Antonio City Police Department, and Bexar County Sherifs Office for aiding and abetting kidnapping. 


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<div>The attorney’s retainer is <strong>$5,000. </strong>


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<div>I’ve managed to raise <strong>$300</strong> so far.


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<div>This isn’t just a custody battle. It’s not just a legal fight. This is a desperate effort to rescue a child from a cycle of control, manipulation, and emotional abuse—and to make sure he knows his mother never gave up on him. 


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<div>If you have ever loved a child, if you’ve ever known fear, heartbreak, or the helplessness of being silenced;


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<div>Please help me bring Ember home.


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<div>Every share matters. Every donation brings us closer.


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<div>I have not seen my son since May 22nd, 2025, at 6:00 pm. I have been counting the hours. 
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<div>24. 48. 72. 100. 120. 
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<div>I worry for his safety, mental wellbeing, and mental duress every single minute. 


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<div>He has never gone this long without me, I know he must be scared, worried, and confused. 


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<div>Thank you for your support, your compassion, and your belief in justice.


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<div>With hope,


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<div>     Rhianna Baldwin


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