Help me help my brother db

I'm Robin. I was always 'db's little sister' when I went to whatever concert he was working. He was always there; my big brother - that larger-than-life presence. db helped everyone, including me. Now, when I need to take care of him, I need help. I have to drive from Michigan to Boston and do what one does after someone passes away: transportation from the medical examiner's office to the crematorium, certified death certificates, his being cremated, clearing out his room, and canceling accounts. Please help me help my brother.