Help With Headstone, Children.

My dad passed away unexpectedly Saturday morning.  He leaves behind a wife, 6 children and 5 grandchildren. 3 of the children are still in school.
We are piecing together everything we can, while trying to maintain life for the youngest children and grandchildren.
He touched so many people. And was always the first to help. If someone needed him, he was there. Always a phone call away, day or night. 
I'm not sure how much to ask for, because so much is needed now, even if its not money. Dinner for the kids so mom doesnt have to cook, help with driving to appts.
But whatever is raised will go to helping with the memorial, children, living expenses.