College fuunds for Brian's son Zacariah

My son Zacariah lost his father and grandma on the same day within hours apart. .  He is a very smart and handsome 12 yr old.  I'm just trying to make his life a little easier when he decides to go off to college..I'm at a loss for words not sure what to say he is now gonna have to deal with all the backlash from his fathers mistakes and just want things to be a little easier for him down the road. The money donated is going straight into a bank account that none can touch until he graduates from high school... Anything helps and please no negative comments we have been through enough already...