F-14 Navy Pilot needs help

Friends, Family, Countrymen and women, I am appealing to you for help. I have been denied VA compensation for Dementia, Sleep Apnea, Vein, and skin issues from the Navy days. I have been fighting this battle for three years. I'm at the point that I have to make a bucket list and try to carve out a way to make it. My better half is working so hard with two home jobs to take care of me at the same time. She got a hold of an RV company that is willing to drastically discount a road trip if we can cover a small fee, gas, lodging, and food. This is my 'big trip' to try and make 'memories' to draw from-a summer to remember. I play on the term 'remember' on purpose. I want to visit friends, family,  national parks, and beaches along the way. I want to document it for my memory book and visit wounded warriors on the trip. If you have any way to help me with my bucket list I'd be so very thankful.