My name is Adrian, and I'm a trans guy living in Washington. A few years back, my husband and I had to move several times. As a result, we had to take out some loans and use credit cards, because neither of us knows how to drive, and moving companies are expensive.

I've been in a debt elimination program to help me pay off my debt faster. Unfortunately, one of the creditors refuses to work with us. They want $4,000 by July 31, but I can't pay that on top of bills and rent (which is $2,400).

I don't like to ask for money, but desperate times and all that. Anything helps.

Thank you.