Debbie's funeral costs and bills

So this it hard for me to do being that i've never done this before nor ever felt the need to.  Well here we go, back in december my mom had to have gull bladder surgery where the doctor found 2 gull stones one of them which being bigger than a golf ball plus a smaller one . The doctor ended up going in removing the stones and the gull badder itself. Ever since the surgery she's been in pain, not eating well and lost a lot of weight due to all of this. On saturday 02/03/18 my mom very weak ended up falling as my brother and myself were at home with her we got her to sit up to be able to go use the bathroom.  ( i've already called 911) when i opened the door she was laying there barley talking to me. medics arrived where they did vitials and what not got wheeled to the ambulance where she only got worse and actually flat lined and they had to do cpr  on her the whole way to the hospital and got her to come back with a pulse. while at the hospital they hooked her up to machines giving her meds and actually breathing for her ( life support) where they found out in the time frame from the fall to the hospital she had a heart attack due to all the pain and stress and also found out she was bleeding interally and couldn't pin point where from. my mom ended up passing away due to the bleeding after midnight on 02/04/18 with me by her side and holding her hand till last breath at the age of 64. My mother as many of you know was a hard headed, stubborn woman that cared about very many, exspecially her 4 boys, my father ( her husband) and all her grandkids. she lived for all of us and her grandkids were her world. My mom was one of those people to care about others before worrying about herself, that is exactly why i feel like setting this up for her is the least i can do for her, to give my mom what she deserves and be able to rest in peace knowing she was loved by so many and will be miss terribly by many. I love my mom so much and miss her tons already and seeing my dad as torn apart as he is i want to try and help him as much and the best i can as i love him very much as well and dont want to put all the worry and stress on his shoulders. Whatever it may be  donated will be used to help with costs to lay my mom to rest, bills that were left behind by her and whatver other things that came from my mom passing. My father works very hard as a lot of you may know and is  one reason i love him so much because he has taught me everything i know from fishing, hunting, swimming, and expecially working hard for what you want and need and to never give up. he  to provide and maintain and cares and helps others when need be and has always been there for my brothers and my self so i want to help him out for once the best i can and honestly to have a place that people can feel free to write a little some or share a memory of my mother whether that  you may have of her or with her. My family and i would appreciate whatever it may be even if it's sharing something about my mother, or even just taking the time to share this page we will be forever greatful. We just started planning and getting things organized kind of for my mom's funeral and service. I honestly don't have a set date for how long we will let this run im gonna say at least the next 2 weeks and will  say the funeral will be in the next week or so  Thank you in advace for at least taking the time to reading this post. If anyone has any questions or what not feel free to contact either myself or any of my family members and they will get in touch with me or my father to answer whatever it may be.

Donations

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  • Terri & Brad Banaszewski 
    • $100 
    • 40 mos
  • Susan Losie  
    • $35 
    • 40 mos
  • Linda Mickschl 
    • $100 
    • 40 mos
  • Bill Schneider 
    • $100 
    • 40 mos
  • Jolinn Lone Tree 
    • $40 
    • 40 mos
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Organizer

Nick Christiansen 
Organizer
St. Paul, MN
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