Exactly 1 month ago we lost our daughter in law. A wife , and mother. Who struggled with depression. I received a call from my son that she had past away I was in shock ! It was totally unexpected.She had been sick with a bug for a week. Her husband had tired to take her to the doctor. But she wouldn’t go. He kept trying to get her to come to bed she said she was just going to lay on the couch until her stomach felt better. He continued to check on her. In about 20 mins he was awakened by the dog going crazy and the baby screaming, he is 3. Her legs were off the couch. He knew then something was terribly wrong! He ran over didn’t get a pulse. Started COR. Could not make a call then they couldn’t afford a cell phone. And SPECTRUM never got their house phone working . So he had to pick his 3 year old up , run next door and get someone to call the EMTS. The continued COR. She died at home in front of her 3 year old and her husband.. She wouldn’t ask for help. . Her husband had missed so much work because of her condition. That one week before she past away he lost his job, which they were already facing eviction. No car, etc.
we couldn’t help them anymore , we had helped a lot, we are raising 2 grandchildren well one is our grandson the other his sister, but we love her like our own. We get no help financially for their care. This has been a rough year! For us all.
she left a husband to take care of a beautiful 3 year old who had a surgery 2 and a half years earlier, he had a cleft lip. This family has had one struggle after the other.
if you could find it in your heart tohelp in anyway the family would greatly appreciate it. We would be extremely grateful.