Burial and Med expenses for my wife

My wife's last wish is to be buried at the Rockville Cemetery near where we used to live. With the increasing medical expenses and other bills I'm afraid I won't be able to provide this for her as we haven't even acquired a plot yet and won't be able to without help. I'm feeling very inadequate as a provider and embarrassed I have to ask for help. any money I might collect would go to Burial expenses first and then Medical bills.

Thank You for your consideration
Mark Strathouse
Rockyhill Kennels