Help me bring Daniel to California ❤️

Hello.

Well, I've never done this before, so bear with me.

I think everyone knows the story, but a little over 3 years ago, (just before I was going to delete the dating app for the umpteenth time), the face of the most beautiful man I'd ever seen popped up with a blue star next to it.

In typical Amanda form, I said... "I don't know if the superlike was an accident, but I think you're a babe."...

It got a good laugh, but sure enough, that star was genuine, and our attraction to one another, very real.

Needless to say, all the stars (blue and otherwise) aligned in the digital world and Daniel and I "matched" online at the height of the pandemic. Upon realizing there was actually 5,300+ miles between us, we had no serious intention of pursuing one another until before we knew it; days, weeks, months passed, and we were partners, very much in one another's daily lives. We both were in it, putting in the effort, (In a very effortless way), just enjoying getting to know one another and waiting patiently until we could actually meet for the first time in person.

Before you know it, a year and a month later, travel restrictions were partially lifted, and so I flew. I flew from SFO to Munich, Munich to Copenhagen, then boarded a train from Copenhagen to Gothenburg.

And as I stepped off the train, there, he was waiting. Our eyes met, and that was it.

Here we are, now over 3 years later, still patient. Still very much in love, and putting in the work. I've never been in a long distance relationship before this, and It's not for the faint of heart. Some days are harder than others, but so it is in any other relationship. And, you can't help who you fall-and rise-in love with.

What else is one supposed to do when the universe lays out in front of you the person you want to share a life with?

There are lifespans for everyone and everything, and life itself is hard as it is. And as much as fear likes to rear it's ugly head my way, the biggest regret of my life would be not to give it my all and try.

Even though I am not in the best position to myself, I have been extremely fortunate to be able to make some trips myself and work remotely while being there. Unfortunately, Daniel doesn't have the luxury, and isn't in a position to do the same.

On top of that, life seems to dish out more hurdles than blessings, and more challenges than rewards. And, when it's not one thing, it's another and he can't seem to catch a break.

Daniel is the epitome of selflessness, constantly putting others first and helping folks out whenever he can. He is not just a devoted partner, but also a full-time father who works tirelessly to provide for himself and his kids. Despite the obstacles he faces, he continues to give his all.

He had an opportunity that would have brought in a little extra cash that would have made it a little more possible for him to have the funds to come here for the first time, but that fell through and the tools and parts he'd need would cost a lot more than he's able to put in right now.

He is a proud man, and never does anything for himself and would NEVER ask for help, and so... in secret, as a surprise, I'm giving this a go.

The purpose of this fundraiser is simple – in the name of love, to bring Daniel to California.

I don't know what will come of this, but all I can do is try. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking the time to read this and for considering a small contribution. Your support means the world to me, and I am eternally grateful for your kindness and generosity.

Love,

Amanda