Help Paul get his boy home

We are trying to raise money to help Paul hire an out of state lawyer in New Jersey to bring his son home. Paul, throughout nine years has been a great dad. Without court getting involved he has contributed thousands in financial help sent to his son's mother but has been too often denied the special bond of actually spending time with his son. In thought of several encounters with the mother, no doubt has been given, she is under the influence of substances. Paul has been denied the demand for a follicle drug test, despite the lack of care the mother has displayed for the well being of his son. The school has been involved with many concerns regarding his son, as well as the mental state of the mother. Her lack of communication is outstandingly astonishing not only for Paul's sake, but for many of his son's necessities. Paul's attempts to co-parent without the involvements of the court system have all but been exhausted and dangled in his face or ignored by the mother for too long. These attempts have also kept Paul from the knowledge and assistance a family lawyer could have provided and will provide. We want to reach our goal to bring Paul's son home where he belongs with the best options in life for him. What we can use we would love to help other great dad's going through similar hardships with their children. Thank you all are loved.