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A Chance to Rebuild my Relationship w/my Daughter

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So I know that people often don’t like to hear about addiction and addicts. People don’t like to hear about the horrible choices and wreckage that a person can create for themselves when they are in active addiction. I made my bed now lay in it... right? 
But I'm going to tell you a little bit about myself and see if there is anyone out there willing to help me because I’m desperate to have a relationship with my first born daughter Nevaeh.

So here it goes. My name is Vallon Carlile. I am 30 years old. I am a recovering drug addict, and I have been clean for 2 years July 29, 2019. When I first got clean I was homeless, I was lost, I was a victim. The world was against me and I could never take ownership for any of my behavior or any of choices I made. I had been addicted to meth for 15+ years(since I was 14) and lost EVERYTHING. I had come to the conclusion that I would die a drug addict and I was ok with that. I was ok with settling for less because having anything more than less meant I had to try hard and work hard for it. Long story short, I finally had enough and went to rehab on July 29 2017. I gave my life to a God of my own understanding which just so happened to be Jesus Christ for me. I tried everything I hadn’t tried before and my life slowly started to change. I got a job(that I’ve worked for for almost two years), I got my family back, I got married, I got my youngest daughter back, I got a license( for the first time when I was 28). I actually got the chance to live. To have purpose. Well, my husband and I were in active addiction together and he (in April of 2017 before we got sober) got caught with drugs on him. And in July 2018 he was finally sentenced for his charges and was sentenced to serve 5 years(all five in prison). So since then I have remained sober, I still take care of my daughter( and pay child support for Nevaeh). I don’t let the negative situation that has become of my life affect me negatively. I cling so tightly to God and let the negative motivate and teach me. So my oldest daughter Nevaeh lives in Ohio and I live in Georgia. When Nevaeh was two, I was 19, and very much still in active addiction. I new that it was the best(but hardest) decision for Nevaeh to give here to her dad. Nevaeh was a premie and weighed 1lb 15oz and she is a miracle. She is 12 today and the last time I saw her she was 3. Long story short, she wants me to come see her this summer. And because I’m a single parent because my husband is in prison and I’m just trying to keep my head above water I can’t afford to go see her. I would give anything to have the chance to see her and start to rebuild my relationship with her. Every little girl needs their momma and she actually wants something to do with me. I need help to make my little girls dreams come true. We talk via text but she doesn’t really know me so it’s hard for her(rightfully so). She told me the best way to build any type of relationship is to come visit her. I can’t do this on my own or I would. Please help me y’all. This would be heaven sent. Thanks for listening to my story and God bless. I LOVE YOU NEVAEH!!

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Vallon Carlile
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Lithia Springs, GA

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