Surviving & Healing after emotional abuse..
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"I just shot diet coke out my nose…laughing so hard at your answer! Thanks for the laugh!!" F, 37 USA.
Hello and thank you for taking the time to take a gander at this here letter asking you to part with just a little of your no doubt hard earned cash.
My name is Neil and in Jan 2017 I entered into an abusive and vitriolic relationship with a complete covert and largely sociopath narcissist whilst I was also recovering from PTSD.
It lasted a nightmarish 14 months (just!) with a great many lessons learnt. Toward the end of the dynamic I started to research narcissism in all its glory via Google and a thing called Quora for which in the last 12 months I've asked fellow survivors advice twice and I've contributed so far 244 answers to help people come through emotional abuse by oddly seeing the funny and finding the light in the darkest of places.
Apparently I have an unusual style that enables people with abundant empathy to see how they held all the power. I help to turn victims into near heroic humans and above all else, I enable them to be free and strong post recovery.
I was medically discharged in early 2019 from my job as a medic in the Royal Air Force. I'm still requiring surgery for a fudged wrist and I have time on my hands and devoted my time to further research, starting a YouTube channel (soon to launch), and.. writing a book based on my Quora submissions which I'm sure, as it has done already, could help a great many people suffering at the hands of emotional abuse and also could steer nefarious types into doing the right thing.
I'm not exactly PC in my approach as one of my idioms is to highlight the futile efforts of narcissism often with humour.
So, here I am, cap in hand to continue my work, publish the book, launch an emotional abuse coaching charity and to hopefully go to school to get some education toward counselling, cognitive behavioural therapy and overall contributing back to society to enable abuse survivors from all walks of life to have the most fulfilling life they could possibly have by publishing my defence against the dark arts bookie..
This is one of the most prolific damnation's of our society that these situations happen to usually good and decent people which they struggle to explain from the inside out and is hard to see from the outside in; the net result is our loved ones who are prone to these types WILL make the same mistakes again and be abused unless they learn from it - my aim is to vicariously help victims see the light.
I'd recommend reading a few of my Quora stuff if you'd like to know what its all about. Please follow this link to a few of my Quora submissions to make an informed choice to donate or not, each submission is no more than a 10 minute read.
Will I heal from narcissistic abuse?
Are narcissists evil?
What makes narcissists sad?
How do narcissists control empathic people?
How do you stop a narcissist in their tracks?
I want to make a difference for the good people who encounter abusers, at first with healing words and then action toward releasing their own demons..
Here's some feed back so far..
"This helped - a lot - just having the words for the emotions I felt and surprisingly on the same timeline! Wow."
"thank you so much Neil. thank you so-o-o-o-o-o much. It truly is wonderfully humbling to know that I’m not alone with this."
"Thanks, that so validates my experience. People that I have told my story to are always surprised by my being grateful for the experience. I really get who I am now."
"Thanks Neil. On many levels, the advice you gave initially has helped tremendously. Like you said “my soul is screaming out”
Hello and thank you for taking the time to take a gander at this here letter asking you to part with just a little of your no doubt hard earned cash.
My name is Neil and in Jan 2017 I entered into an abusive and vitriolic relationship with a complete covert and largely sociopath narcissist whilst I was also recovering from PTSD.
It lasted a nightmarish 14 months (just!) with a great many lessons learnt. Toward the end of the dynamic I started to research narcissism in all its glory via Google and a thing called Quora for which in the last 12 months I've asked fellow survivors advice twice and I've contributed so far 244 answers to help people come through emotional abuse by oddly seeing the funny and finding the light in the darkest of places.
Apparently I have an unusual style that enables people with abundant empathy to see how they held all the power. I help to turn victims into near heroic humans and above all else, I enable them to be free and strong post recovery.
I was medically discharged in early 2019 from my job as a medic in the Royal Air Force. I'm still requiring surgery for a fudged wrist and I have time on my hands and devoted my time to further research, starting a YouTube channel (soon to launch), and.. writing a book based on my Quora submissions which I'm sure, as it has done already, could help a great many people suffering at the hands of emotional abuse and also could steer nefarious types into doing the right thing.
I'm not exactly PC in my approach as one of my idioms is to highlight the futile efforts of narcissism often with humour.
So, here I am, cap in hand to continue my work, publish the book, launch an emotional abuse coaching charity and to hopefully go to school to get some education toward counselling, cognitive behavioural therapy and overall contributing back to society to enable abuse survivors from all walks of life to have the most fulfilling life they could possibly have by publishing my defence against the dark arts bookie..
This is one of the most prolific damnation's of our society that these situations happen to usually good and decent people which they struggle to explain from the inside out and is hard to see from the outside in; the net result is our loved ones who are prone to these types WILL make the same mistakes again and be abused unless they learn from it - my aim is to vicariously help victims see the light.
I'd recommend reading a few of my Quora stuff if you'd like to know what its all about. Please follow this link to a few of my Quora submissions to make an informed choice to donate or not, each submission is no more than a 10 minute read.
Will I heal from narcissistic abuse?
Are narcissists evil?
What makes narcissists sad?
How do narcissists control empathic people?
How do you stop a narcissist in their tracks?
I want to make a difference for the good people who encounter abusers, at first with healing words and then action toward releasing their own demons..
Here's some feed back so far..
"This helped - a lot - just having the words for the emotions I felt and surprisingly on the same timeline! Wow."
"thank you so much Neil. thank you so-o-o-o-o-o much. It truly is wonderfully humbling to know that I’m not alone with this."
"Thanks, that so validates my experience. People that I have told my story to are always surprised by my being grateful for the experience. I really get who I am now."
"Thanks Neil. On many levels, the advice you gave initially has helped tremendously. Like you said “my soul is screaming out”
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Neil Bryan
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