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Hello, I'm Frengkie Budiman +61434265909. I have COLON CANCER NEAR RECTAL (COLON RECTAL CANCER) and LUNG CANCER. TAILBONE BROKEN (SPINAL CORD INJURY). Currently I on going CHEMOTHERAPY for 6 months start on Thursday 22 August 2024. Every day many times I DEFECATE empties and clean my BAG on my STOMACH and I URINATE use CATHETER. I wake up early morning 2 TIMES TO URINATE USING A CATHETER and DEFECATE empties and clean my BAG on my STOMACH. I buy food by bus and cooking and take care for myself by myself. Now my weight 44 kg. December 2023 58 kg.

July 10, 2024 at Royal Perth Hospital in Perth City, Western Australia I had SURGERY 6 hours to REMOVE a 2 cm TUMOUR in my LARGE COLON and LARGE COLON was RECONNECTED and a STOMA BAG was placed on my STOMACH have SMALL INTESTINE was OUT FROM MY STOMACH for DEFECATE . I have a 7 mm TUMOR in my LUNG.
September 10, 2023 at Royal Perth Hospital in Perth City, Western Australia I have BROKEN TAILBONE SURGERY. SPINE CORD INJURY. I HAVE IRON PLATES INSTALLED on the LEFT and RIGHT to SUPPORT my BACK BONE. I URINATE using a CATHETER EVERY 4 HOURS 6 TIMES A DAY. Early morning I wake up twice for URINATE USE CATHETER.
10 July 2024 at the Royal Perth Hospital in the City of Perth Western Australia I had SURGERY for 6 hours to remove a 2 cm tumor in my LARGE INTESTINE and had my LARGE INTESTINAL RECONNECTED AGAIN and a POUCH was placed in my STOMACH which had my SMALL INTESTINAL is OUT FROM MY STOMACH. I DEFECATE (POO) through a STOMA BAG in my STOMACH where my SMALL INTESTINE is out from MY STOMACH.
I still have a 7 mm tumor in my LUNGS. I have CANCER COLON and LUNG CANCER.

September 10, 2023 at the Royal Perth Hospital in the City of Perth in Western Australia I had surgery for MY BROKEN TAILBONE. SPINE CORD INJURIES. INSTALL IRON PLATES on the left and right to hold MY BACK BONE. I URINATE WITH A CATHETER EVERY 4 HOURS 6 TIMES A DAY.

I am Frengkie Budiman 55 year old and I am facing the toughest battle of my life.

I have been abused for over 12 years by my wife and mother-in-law (MIL).

I constantly received verbal abuse and harassment, which caused my mental condition to worsen. When hurt and mentally abused. This ultimately took its toll on me as I have now been diagnosed with Colon and Lung Cancer.

I am forced to do physical work at home despite having just had major surgery on my broken tailbone (spinal cord injury) 10 September 2023 (i.e. my Mother-in-Law forced me to clean the toilet after my surgery), and if I go against it, I will be bombarded again with insults and verbal abuse that my brain can no longer accept.

I wish I could fight back or fight back but I can't because I have been mentally hurt since day one and my mind has been damaged forever from receiving daily verbal abuse from them especially in front of 2 sweet boys. Sometimes I think even dogs or cats are treated so much better than me.

Now I have been diagnosed with COLON RECTAL CANCER and LUNG have TUMOUR 7 mm. I really need your support.

I had nothing left – no house, no possessions, and no financial security.

My body and mind have been damaged by constant abuse and harassment:
1. I had surgery for a broken tailbone (spinal cord injury) 10 September 2023.
2. I can't urinate normally - I URINATE USE CATHETER for EVERY 4 HOURS 6 TIMES A DAY. Early morning I wake up twice for URINATE USE CATHETER.
3. Because of my COLON RECTAL CANCER, the doctor had to cut my colon and put it back together. I now defecate through a STOMA BAG in my STOMACH that is my SMALL INTESTINE OUT from MY STOMACH.
4. I also have Lung CANCER.
5. And the worst - my 2 boys who have been told by their mother and grandmother about how bad or useless I am as their father.

Despite these challenges, I remain determined to fight for my health and future to accompany my two sons.

I can't do it alone. I need your help to cover the costs of medical care, living expenses, and rebuilding my life.

Your donation will go directly to:
- Cancer treatments and medical bills.
- Rent and utilities for a safe place to live.
- Food and basic necessities.
- Legal fees to protect myself from further harassment.

Any contribution, big or small, you can make via the GoFundMe site https://gofund.me/b3d6628a, will give me hope and help me get back on my feet. Your kindness, generosity and support means a lot to me. I really appreciate you. God bless you and your family. Thank you very much

Thank you so much for taking the time to read my story. Please share this page https://7gofundme.blogspot.com with your loved ones and friends and let's fight cancer and abuse together.

If you would like to come to see me to see the POUCH in my TUMMY which is SMALL INTESTINE OUT from my TUMMY could you please call or SMS first to Frengkie Budiman mobile phone number +61434265909. Thank you very much.
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