Cancer Sucks

As many of you know, things have been very difficult lately. Late October my dad died from throat cancer then I was diagnosed with cancer. In the meantime we lost a car and have been hit with many financial problems. Like many people out there. I know our story is nothing new. And it might not have ben so bad had 3 of the cons I worked this year paid me. But unfortunately they did not. I have scheduled my 1st of 3 surgeries to start attacking the cancer. But I just received a call saying I would need to pay upfront and gave me an excuse blaming our insurance. I do not have it, and do not want to give this cancer a chance to spread. I owe it to my children to do what I hate doing. Ask for help. So I am asking for help, please.