help me lay my mom to rest

my mom pam krakowski passed away suddenly in her sleep on wednesday 4/30/14. i'm left to take of my younger brother and my 11year old nephew and struggling to lay my mom to rest even with help from family. if you can find it you're hearts to help us with this heart wrenching sudden tragedy it would be greatly appreciated . she was auntie pam to everyone and my best friend ,now we have a hole in our heart that will never be able to fill. please help us give her proper goodbye i thank you in advance and from the bottom of our hearts.