Help for my family

I know this could be a long shot. My father has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and  he has to decide on wether he wants to take his kidney and bladder out and I know it’s effective him because we have no money and due to his cancer he no longer has a job . I myself am not working at the moment either. We are struggling extremely bad. No money for gas to get to appointments no money for bills or rent. It’s putting us both in debt. He’s the strongest man I know and I hate to see him weak and falling apart. Stress is very bad for his condition and I just want to make it some what easy for him. Anything helps if you have any more questions on his health or anything please just message me . God bless you all ❤️