My Champion, Friend And Dad GRUMPY

My dad was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer in October. He was given 1 to 11 mos. to live and is fighting this monster. His latest scan shows that there has been no change in the tumor. Thank God! He is working 40 hours plus a week, is the main insurance holder, and is exhausted. We are asking for help, so that he can rest a little, and build up his strength. And not worry so much about the bills coming in.
My parents have been married for 43 years. My dad has always set a great example for my brother and me. He serviced our country as an mp and was stationed in Korea, was a police officer in the tiny town of East Ellijay GA, and he now works for a security company in CT. He is also the main father figure for my neice, and my best friend. He is determined to live a lot longer and we appreciate any help you can offer.