Please help my family

I don’t know where to start my dad has always been the rock of our family he went from being a big husky guy to losing like 60 pounds in three weeks went to the doctor and found out that his hemoglobin levels were at a 4 and they’re supposed to be at a 12 he’s been in the hospital for over a week He’s had over five blood transfusions and he keeps losing blood and they don’t know where from he’s gotten ammonia he had Internalbleeding that they could not find where it was coming from they thought it was the The ulcers that they had found but it’s not he has a catheter in his neck pumping blood from his lungs and his kidneys are failing and then on Sunday night around 1130 me my mom and my grandmother were leaving visiting my dad We got in a terrible accident where somebody T-bones us when they ran a red light my mom is one big bruise all over myself I have a fracture in my neck my back is hurt but my grandmother has a fractured neck a broken ankle and is bleeding from the brain she basically got scalped in the accident this is been a very trying time for me and my family and now the hospital is telling us that my dad might not make it he’s on life-support and I think my grandmothers too old to be able to handle the surgery to fix your neck I am extremely devastated by this news my life would not be the same if my dad were not in it and my grandmother I pray that they will be OK they just have to be I’m asking for help because my moms car was totaled and we need a way to get back-and-forth to the hospital any donation would help thank you and God bless you from the bottom on my heart ❤️ ❤️❤️