Funeral and Memorial Fund for TJ Essley

Thomas Jay Essley IV
Born January 25, 1982
Deceased November 16, 2013

Known to his friends and family as TJ, he was taken from us much too young. The family needs help to be able to pay for the funeral costs associated with the burial. Any and all help will be greatly appreciated in helping them lay their son to rest.

TJ's family is so very proud of the way TJ had turned his life around these past years. His children, Jay, Ariel and James were the light of his life and he has been fighting a life threatening liver condition, and multiple bouts of pneumonia and still trying to work to support himself and his son Jay, and was working hard toward the day he would have all his children with him. Circumstances surrounding his death will be investigated, he was found today, barely conscious, his house had been burglarized with electronics and medications stolen. He passed later at the hospital due to internal hemorrhaging. It is unclear whether he was attacked or whether his physical condition or a combination of the two were the cause of his passing, we do know he was not feeling well last night.

Donations of any size will be more helpful than you can know to help his family lay him to rest with dignity and love.

My name is Sherry Hacker, I have been TJ's "Aunt" Sherry since his birth. All funds donated will go to the family for funeral arrangements.
  • Gayle Roberts 
    • $50 
    • 92 mos
  • Lerin Madole 
    • $50 
    • 92 mos
  • Jeff Gunther  
    • $300 
    • 92 mos
  • Reuben Larkin 
    • $25 
    • 92 mos
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    • $50 
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Sherry Adams-Hacker 
Broken Arrow, OK
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