Help Me Bring My Children Home

In January of 2014 I had my three children kidnapped I spent years trying to prove my story have been turned away by not only my community but the place that I first found my children. We come from a small town called Snowflake Arizona thats where I had met my ex-husbands family and him. The marriage was annulled due to a very terrible situation with that I made the decision to leave the state of Arizona to come to the state of South Dakota. With that decision I had let my ex-husbands niece watch my children the agreement was for me to come to SD and drop a load off here and go back home for them I was gone no longer than five days when I got back to where they were the house was empty thats where the search for them began. We found them in Preston ID thats where I first filed for a kidnapping charge and the community there had said it was best I gave up on my children. The lady involved was later to be found related to a few members of the court party. By about two court cases in I was served with a warrant for my arrest in the state of Idaho for child support when I had literally been paying 75% of my paycheck. Not a day did I give up on my children I tried writing so many letters that there was something wrong and got turned away by so many people. By 2015 I was 13 thousand in child support debt my rights were terminated with no standing paperwork and I still haven't been served with anything to this day. At this point I have text message proof of her saying that she's going to get away with kidnapping. She cut all contact with my children and their families where we all had a feeling that their safety was a concern. My oldest sons dad had gotten a lawyer and was able to get some charges filed where she was violating the court order and still no one looked into anything. By 2016 they had disappeared again and were found in Sioux City Iowa where I again put in a report of kidnapping and nothing was done I paid my child support actively as I do even to this day. In 2017 they had moved back to Snowflake Arizona where I was from and I had a neighbor report that they were back and seen my children three months after that I'm hearing my middle and oldest were missing yet again but Jessica and Robert were still in the area. I had a family member report to me there was sexual abuse and child trafficking allegations going against them. I spent another two years trying to find the oldest and kept watch on the youngest through as many people as I could. I've asked so many times for help and no one ever wanted to help I spent thousands of dollars trying to get a lawyer that impacted the case and all I got was the child support debt lowered. I find out that I'm still to this day paying for children that these people haven't had in two or more years. Finally in April of 2020 I had an adoption letter come through for my oldest son who will now be 13 in just a few short weeks. Just two weeks ago he was finally able to tell me what really happened. So the story that he gave me was this 

" Mom i have suffered tremendous abuse they did so many bad things to me and the children that are missing. They took my brother to another state where they dropped him off with someone they didn't know the name of. My youngest brother is still in the home suffering the same tremendous abuse."

My son is currently being prosecuted for things he's not even aware of and they are punishing him as an adult for the abuse he suffered through. I have literally complied and jumped through hoops just to adopt my own son because they are saying i have no rights to him they are refusing to release him until I jump through more hoops. I passed everything I have no criminal record and have paid my way through child support for kids they didn't have and to top matters the situation is just getting worse by the day. My son absolutely needs a lawyer I need a lawyer I have one child lost out there and the other still being abused daily by these monsters. There have been charges brought up against Jessica and Robert for 5 missing children in the home plus the trafficking and sexual abuse on the children. As of current stance no justice was brought against them and they still have 14 children in the home I'm not only concerned for the safety of the one they still have but even their own children. All I want to do is bring my babies home and help them heal but I can't if nothing is ever done to their abusers. I have pulled from my own pocket this whole now almost 8 years that I've been dealing with this. I'm noticing the longer I wait to have a lawyer the longer the abuse and the system punishment goes on. It breaks my heart that I can't protect my own children and I have been very private about all of this but the longer I work with the case the longer I realize I need help I need to save the children! I am asking for as much help as I can to get my story told and justice brought to the babies! So I am finally reaching out after seven years of being turned away this is literally my last hope and I pray someone out there has the heart to help me tell the story for the babies they are all that matters in this life! #savethebabies


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Marty Vance 
Pierre, SD
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