Cheating Wife Took Kids Need Lawyer

When I was over seas fighting for the Navy, my wife was having an affair with a retired USN Captain. I got back and found she had gotten rid of my two dogs because they were making noise in the middle of the night when her boyfriend would come over and the kids would wake up. I found out she was abusing the kids in different ways each. Now the navy has moved me back to take care of all of this but I’m running out of money for the lawyer fast. Wife did not pay bills and racked up all the credit cards while was gone so I would not have money for the lawyer. I already tried doing it with out a lawyer but she has one and is winning some how. I have never asked for help, and I really don’t know what I’m doing anymore. I just want my kids and life back to normal with the bad wife out of it all. Thank you to everyone that helps.