Meet my family

I have searched for my biological family for over 37 years and have finally found some of them. My biological mother has already passed away but my biological father is still alive.  He has cancer, so we're not sure how much longer he'll be around.  I live on the east coast and he lives on the west coast.  I've just moved and in that process wiped out all our savings.  I would like to meet my biological father before he passes away.  This has been a dream of mine for a very long time.  To be able to say to family, does thin hair run in the family or is there illnesses to be aware of.  To be able to get and receive a hug from my bloodline... that would be the best feeling in the world. I've been accepted on the phone but in person is the real test.  Will I be accepted? The only way to know is to see my Father and family in person, look into their eyes (and have them look into mine) and say, "yes, you belong to this family". Since we aren't sure how long my Father has to live, the sooner I can get out to the west coast to see him, the better.  I will be eternally grateful for any and all help to achieve this goal.