- J

Help me get this off my chest!
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€448 raised of €6.8K
12 donations
UPDATE 13.09.2025
IT IS DONE!!! I’m still recovering and therefore can’t fully embrace my new freedom just yet, but I am so so happy and grateful and sending kisses to my whole team at Plastmed Düsseldorf, especially to Dr. Pluto, Michelle and my own Michelle at home. ♡ I will keep updating about healing, down payment and other parts of my transition, so stay tuned.
ORIGINAL INTRO
Hey there! My name is Kim and as your not-so-average guy I need to get rid of some extra baggage I was cursed with at birth.
At 33 years of age I can confidently say I have been suffering from gender dysphoria for as long as I can remember. Always told I would eventually grow out of it. Well, I didn’t. Now, after a lifetime’s worth of throwbacks, I was unexpectedly presented with the incredible opportunity to get a mastectomy done at Plastmed Düsseldorf much sooner than I had expected. It’s a bit of a double edged sword though, as it leaves me with way less time to save up for it than I thought. On top of that it also falls right into the period in which I am to get started on other parts of my medical transition. In a country without an informed consent model and a collapsing mental health care system, initial access to medical care for trans* people is atrocious, with exorbitant waiting times, extra costs, stubborn insurances, unqualified and unwilling medical professionals. You won’t want to cancel whatever appointments you finally managed to get, if you can help it.
And that is where this fundraiser comes in! Your financial aid will help me focus on my surgery, healing and overall transition without worrying too much about how to pay off an unexpected loan. Any little bit you can spare is greatly appreciated, even if it is nothing more than sharing this page so others might see it.
Getting my chesticles removed will greatly improve my wellbeing and overall life. Not only will it, combined with hormone replacement therapy, have my body match my mind, it will also greatly improve my physical health and comfort by not having to compress my chest anymore, day in day out.
Below you can find an overview of expenses related to transition that I have, a schedule, as well as some sources for costs and general transgender care.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
BREAKDOWN OF COSTS
- 5 diagnostic therapy sessions 725€
- top surgery 4700€
- follow-up cost insurance 169€
- post surgery compression vests 165€
- other directly related expenses like breast cancer screening, extra pillows, a set or two of easy to change oversized clothes, OTC medication, legal ID change, car gas and parking, treating my post surgery caregivers to coffee/food,… 500€
- 90 days worth of HRT without insurance 343€
- rounding up to an even 6800€ to make up for donation fees with a small financial cushion: 198€
SCHEDULE
- consult top surgery: 02.07.2025 ✓
- breast cancer screening: 14.07.2025 ✓
- next order of 90 day HRT supply: 01.08.2025 ✓
- pre-OP briefing: 01.09.2025 ✓
- top surgery: 04.09.2025 ✓
- 1st week follow-up: 10.09.2025 ✓
- 2nd week follow-up: 18.09.2025
- begin psycho therapy: 22.09.2025
- begin HRT on insurance: Oct/Nov 2025
- ID change: possibly end of 2025 / start of 2026
- (hysterectomy: not included in this fundraiser, but strongly desired)
SOURCES
Please excuse some websites being in German only
- Top Surgery at Plastmed Düsseldorf
- Clinics Top Surgery Instagram (I am featured on there now, as the patient in their how-to reel for changing the grafts dressings!)
- HRT on own costs
- S3 Leitlinie
- 2022 US Trans Survey





