My US Veteran Father's Funeral

Good day everyone. I lost my Father on Sunday, June 11, 2017. My Father suffered from Alzheimer's Dementia, and he fell and broke his hip early May 5 days after his 81st Birthday and he just never recovered after that. My Dad is a US Veteran, a retired Civil Engineer and a loving and caring father. Unfortunately my Dad was very frugal, never planned for the future or even his demise. My Dad has no life insurance and I borrowed against my 401k to pay for my Dad's funeral. Since I'm not vested at my company until next year I was not able to pull out the whole amount, even though I was told last week that I could. So I am asking for your help, something I very rarely do to contribute to my Dad's funeral expenses. Any amount will help and will be greatly appreciated. Thank you all in advance. Wanda Harris