Please help us during this ongoing nightmare...

EDIT...I went back today to my surgeon. He spent spent less 15 minutes in the room with me. he never touched me he never looked at my ostomy site. and then he said you was going to send me to another doctor at IU to be looked at. He continues to say that it's a good stoma even though it's not. He acts like it's no big deal all the hell that I've been going through. we would greatly appreciate any help that we could get. Since I still cannot work 2 months later and we are still living in this nightmare. I am still going to wound care weekly. I have to carry around with me a large bag of ostomy supplies, because I have no idea when my ostomy pouch is going to pop off. My mom is helping me get an appointment with another surgeon to get a second opinion. My surgeon now just wants to keep pushing Imodium type drugs and thinks that's going to fix the situation. The stoma was placed in a crease and he made the crease bigger by putting stoma there. So nothing is going to stay on in an area that has a large crease in it. Every time I move I wiggle the ostomy pouch off a little more. I can't work. I have a hard time even doing housework. I am seriously living in a nightmare. I want so bad to get back to work. I feel quite useless at this time. We are struggling to make ends meet. We would be grateful for any help that we get. Thank you for all the prayers and support.