Emergeny hospital stay funding.

Hello everyone,

On the 16th of September 2020 I ended up getting sick with stomach pains that felt like constipation and gas. The staff at ne emergency took me and refused to let me go because they figured something major was wrong because my pain was spreading downwards into my right groin. This terrified me because i am 14 weeks and 4 days pregnant. Due to the pain and the morphine and gravol I needed to use the washroom I ended up fainting because of the extreme pain.The next day i was scheduled for an altra sound and before i knew it i was being rushed by my family to the royal allic hospital for suspected aggravated appendices. During the second altra sound i was still able to be told my baby was alright after having to worry for nearly two days with the pain. Babies heart rate was 154 bpm but after finding out the heart rate the lab tech needed to see my appendix causing my pain to sky rocket again. A lab tech, a reaident doctor, along with the radiologist stated i had appendicitis. So youd think emergency surgery right after no. I got place in a waiting room in emergency for 2 and a half hours before being placed in a bed. I could no longer walk after this point and was being pushed around by wheel chair. When they called me into the room the staff were great but the news i recieved was not and let me remind you due to covid no one is allowed into a lot of the hospitals so i was struggling to have my husband with me in the mean time. At this point a doctor came in telling me i had two options. I eother go home with antibiotics and risk it coming back again but worse. Or i could have the surgery and have a chance at losing my first pregnancy. So knowing my body i had to make the right decision and opt for surgery because i could not handle the pain any longer. The doctor then sent me for a mri and during that waiting time of over an 1hr and a half when i was called in for my turn and my pain now being at a 9 because i no longer had pain medication in my body the machine decided to break down. After an hour of being strapped to a table unable to move and in pain the techs gor it workong again and performed my mri which again only proved my appendix was inflammed. After this the doctor said id be going for surgery 6 hours later when in reality it turned into nearly 12 hours later with low doses of pain medication on the basement waiting recovery area for the people who have their surgery and leave but apparently that wasnt the case for me. After requesting more pain medication i had been refused due to having it 3 hours before and i needed to wait another hour. Shortly after this discussion i was being taken up to surgery where i needed to wait another hour for the room and fhe doctors to explain everything to me. Remember how i said i could only have my pain meds in an hour. That hour of waiting went by and i no longer had pain meds in my system and within seconds myself and baby felt an extreme rush of agonizing pain shotting right out the bottom of my right groin and vagina area. I was unable to control the pain or my screams and a doctor rushed out to give me 100mg of fentynal which had no affect and shortly after that i remembered nothing as they put me under as the pain completely took over. When i awoke the next day i was in pain that was tolerable and shortly later that pain became untolerable. Unable to get up or try to walk on my own was yet again another shitty feeling. When the surgeon arrived to explain how the proceeder went she notified me that my appendix had actaully ruptured and ripped apart the inside tissue on my right side resulting in internal stitches a drainage bag and 3 incisions which one was enlarged to use to sew the inside of my stomach up. Due to being unable to control my pain and being left on iv anti biotics and miltiple fluid packs its resulted in me being in the hospital for nearly a week with little to no end on sight due to the only medication calming the pain is morphine. During this process baby has remand bwing strong for me as i am trying for it. I am seeking help from others though because i am in need of trying to pay my bills as i have not been able to work and will not be able to work for awhile now due to working in Healthcare and having to move constently and lift people or objects. I am the sole provider for my house hold and at all costs i need to be able to provide for my family as my husband is in the process of becoming a permanent resident and has not be eligible for a work visa. My husband has two biological kids whom i help raise everyday and need to be able to provide for them. If anyone has a little extra money and would like to donate we would greatly appreciate it very much. God bless and love everyone. ❤
  • #1 fundraising platform

    People have raised more money on GoFundMe than anywhere else. Learn more

  • GoFundMe Guarantee

    In the rare case that something isn’t right, we will refund your donation. Learn more

  • Expert advice, 24/7

    Contact us with your questions and we’ll answer, day or night. Learn more