Putting a loving father to rest

On December 30th, 2015, my father, Darrell Thompson, died tragically in a horrible car accident, while on his way to spend time with his friend. Due to the poor choice of one individual, I can no longer turn to my father who raised me and 2 younger brothers as a single parent. Although my father worked tirelessly for both the City and County for over thirty years, I can't access his pension because he died two months shy of his 60th birthday.
If you're able to help, I will greatly appreciate it.
Thank you in advance.