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Becky's Boys

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Becky's family is so very grateful for all of your support - monetarily and emotionally.

For those of you who were able to be with us on Saturday when we celebrated Becky's amazing life, we truly felt your love . For those of you who were unable to be there but sent your love, thank you!

Listening to and reading the wonderful stories you have all shared has made us realize even more what an extraordinary person Becky was; she has certainly said a high bar for those of us left behind to achieve.

One last request -- continue to spread kindness in the world. That is how we will keep Becky's heart alive.

                        With love from Becky's family.


UPDATE:  Becky is in Heaven.  Wednesday Nov. 9th at 9:35 pm, her husband and mother held her hand as she let go. She stayed with us as long as she could, longer than the doctors thought. She stayed for her boys, Paddy, Max and Ryan. 
Becky was comforted by knowing they were going to be taken care of. She was amazed at your generosity and so grateful. YOU all provided comfort to her. YOU did that with your generosity and prayers. Thank you!
We are asking for memories and pictures of Becky to be sent to her mom, Maribeth. She is going to make a scrapbook for Max and Ryan. Please email [email redacted]  with pictures, stories, funny memories....Let's remind her boys why we care and how special she was. 
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Becky (Chaput) Bukowski has received some devastating news.  Despite treatment, her cancer has spread and she has chosen to spend her last remaining days at home with her boys and husband Paddy (John). 
   Her oldest is Max.  He is 3.  He LOVES Batman and Mr. Potato Head. Ryan is just 2 and LOVES Mickey Mouse and friends.  They both have Becky's love of reading as well.  Their mom is such a special caring woman who just wants her boys to be taken care of.
  Many of you have asked how you can help, well here is your chance.  Paddy will be working hard, or harder I should say, to provide for them.  Becky has been a stay at home mom though, so future chidcare expenses are going to be great.  Through your contribution, her boys will get what they need, and a little extra hopefully. 
  As a friend and classmate of Becky's from grade school through high school, she will be MISSED by so many!  This isn't fair.  It's not right.  It may be God's will, but it is SAD.  She's 35.  She has a loving heart.  If you want to help, as I do, please consider contributing.  Let's show her family how many people care.

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  • Marty Rudolph
    • $1,000 
    • 7 yrs
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Organizer and beneficiary

Ellen Vogler
Organizer
Hampstead, NC
John Bukowski
Beneficiary

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