A Doll Like Me

$117,523 of $125,000 goal

Raised by 1,757 people in 54 months
This is the story of A Doll Like Me.
My name is Amy and, in a nutshell, I make dolls for kids who will never see themselves on the store shelves.  I like to think of doll-making more like a ministry or a mission than a business.  Dolls are therapeutic, validating, and comforting.   It is a human likeness and by extension, a representation of the child who loves it.   I am a doll-maker who feels that every kid, regardless of gender, ethnicity, age, medical issue, or body type, should look into the sweet face of a doll and see their own. 
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I talk a lot about changing the narrative - changing WHO we see and HOW we see them.
I believe that we are not only connected to one another, but we are obligated to take care of the people in our village - the global village, so to speak - and it is our responsibility to make sure that everyone has a place at the table.
In my past life (pre-kids!) I was a pediatric oncology social worker.  A big part of my role was helping children adjust to what felt like an out-of-control situation.  Let's face it...hospitalizations and medical procedures are scary when you DO comprehend it; so when you lack the skills to process on an intellectual and emotional level, it's rough.  Play therapy is how kids work through all of that and dolls are an integral part of the process.  What you ideally want is for a child to see him or herself in the doll that you are using because, again, shouldn't all kids be able to see themselves?
You and I know that that's not the case.  Scars, birthmarks, limb differences, skin coloring, medical equipment...those are all things that you rarely see in dolls, but for kids who have those, it's everything!
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My mom taught me that if you see something you want to change, change it!  So I did. 

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My work space (aka studio!) is my dining room table.  (My kitchen counter doubles as a work space also.)  The dining room hasn't been used for its intended purpose in over three years!!!
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Each doll literally starts as a piece of fabric and is custom-made to look like the child who will love it. 
Many kids have never have had the opportunity to see their sweet faces reflected in a doll. It's hard to tell a child that they are beautiful but follow it with - but you'll never see yourself in anything that looks like you.

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Typically, parents or caregivers pay for the dolls - about $100 with shipping per doll. When they can’t afford it, I find a way to cover it myself.   It's that important...if we truly want to talk about the overall health of a child, we need to promote a healthy and positive self-identity.

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I have partnered with children's hospitals to identify kids who might benefit from having a doll for comfort as they go through their medical care. The money raised here will help me do that. Funds raised will be used to pay for materials and shipping to cover the cost of dolls for those who can’t afford it.  As of this spring, A Doll Like Me, Inc. is a recognized nonprofit organization!  I am SO happy about that.

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Ultimately, I don’t want any parent to have to pay for something that’s so important. If we’re going to look at mental health as a necessary part of medical care, this is key. My ultimate goal is to fulfill every doll order that comes in and not have the families have to pay for it.  I think that a doll is a tangible way to show kindness.
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I appreciate you reading the story of A Doll Like Me, and I wish you fulfillment in your life no matter what the challenge.

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We have to be able to look into each other’s eyes to make a connection...to experience real empathy. We have to look for ourselves in the people that we see because THAT is how we connect.
This doll making has become something that I never imagined...it is an opportunity to change WHO we see and HOW we see them. Photos can lead to change - we have seen that in so many instances. I believe that we have to fall in love with these sweet faces to actively participate in the paradigm shift. ♥️
Together we have turned this campaign into something unusual. Not only are you ensuring that dolls make it into the arms (sometimes legs!) of the kids who need them...but you are showing these families the incredible power of kindness. YOU are changing how we see them and in turn, how they see themselves. This is immeasurable and for that I am grateful.
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You may have noticed that the dolls have been in quite a few media pieces in recent months. CBS Nightly News, O Magazine, Women's World, Steve Harvey, Good Morning America, The Today Show....
It's very exciting!
I follow every single piece, read every single comment, and follow all of the shares. Why? Because I want to know what people are saying. I really want to actively participate in this narrative shift. It not only means a lot to ME but it means a lot to the kids.
Nearly every comment is positive...because I think we are ready for this change in the paradigm.
One comment was interesting and it went something like this - "I don't understand why it matters if children play with dolls that look like they do." That's a great question.
I decided to ask the "expert." Six-year-old Cam was gifted a doll 4.5 years ago! This doll has been everywhere from hospitals to Disney World.
"It makes you feel like you're not alone when you have things that look different of yourself of other people...so its special to have a little me that looks like me."
I couldn't have said it better myself...
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This is an unusual GoFundMe Campaign. You may have seen that the last six months brought an incredible amount of media coverage on my dolls. It's very exciting and kind of surreal! With that also came an incredible increase in the number of orders - some for little ones who are fighting for their lives. My gut feeling (and I'm sure yours, too) is that none of these families should have to pay for the very thing that might bring a little bit of comfort. THAT is why the campaign is ongoing. It's a way for us to make "kindness" tangible. It's a way that we can support kids and families who don't always see themselves in the narrative. And it's a way that we can make things better for kids that don't always get a seat at the table.
It's hard to explain how a doll can change things for a child (and family).
I talk a lot about changing the narrative - changing WHO we see and HOW we see them.
This little guy...he has my heart.
Keagan's doll, "Chip", goes pretty much everywhere with him and his mom talks a lot about all of the comments that they receive when they are in public. Recently the conversation has switched from - "What's wrong with him?" and "Why does he look like that?" to "I've seen him and his doll on the news!" and "Oh how cute - he and his doll match!" Isn't that a completely different narrative - for both Keagan AND his mom? Imagine how the former can weigh on someone.
His mom said that having him in public with his doll gave her the courage to put him (and Chip!) in a tank top for the first time in his life. THAT is what I'm talking about when I say that we HAVE to change the narrative. We have to change WHO we see and HOW we see them and how we decide to talk about them...because ultimately don't we all want the same things for our kids?
It's interesting because in the last six months since I was nominated as GoFundMe's Hero, the stories about the dolls have changed a lot. It changed from "a mom makes dolls at her dining room table" to "kids see their faces in the face of a doll for the first time ever" and "Wisconsin doll-maker aims to fill diversity gap in retail." That's huge!
We are going to change the narrative one doll at a time.
Let's face it....the kids who have my dolls are pretty incredible and their cuteness factor is off the charts
The more we see and the more we talk, the more the narrative will change.
Ask Keagan and his mom ❤️
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You know Oprah's famous line - "You get a car! And you get a car!" I've always thought about how lucky those audience members were.

But imagine what it's like for Oprah.

I can tell you what it's like...only this might be even more amazing. I get to tell parents and caregivers that they don't have to worry about the cost of a doll because someone...a perfect stranger...has taken care of it for them. Nine times out of ten it moves them to tears.

For many of these families, strangers aren't always the most supportive or accepting. Imagine being asked - "What's wrong with him?" or "Why does she look like that?" every time you are in public. Imagine being told that you are weird or gross or creepy. Strangers can be so hurtful.

But they can also be very kind.

I get to deliver the news about those kind strangers. I get to be the one that tells a family that a stranger IS supportive and DOES care. I get to deliver a very physical form of kindness and it is pretty amazing. You are those strangers. You are making an impact on a child's life that you may not even being to understand.

It's rare that this happens, but one particular donor is local to me. I decided to make it very personal for the family receiving 'his' doll and took a picture of him holding the doll. (I am sharing this with permission from both the little boy's mom and the mom who is receiving the doll for her son.) Rylan did a fundraiser for his birthday and intended to collect enough money to buy a doll for someone. This is one of those dolls:

"When I got the message this morning saying a little boy did a fundraiser to raise money for a doll for MY son I was shocked. I didn’t believe it. You are an incredible young boy and I’m so thankful that you did this for my son. As a single mom I wasn’t sure how I was gonna pay for the doll because it’s hard enough as it is now. You helped me out more then you know. My son will cherish this doll forever . I can’t wait to receive it and see the look on his face . He is only 2.5 years old but he knows that he is different, so to have something that looks like him is gonna be awesome. Again, I appreciate everything ! I Thank you so incredibly much for doing such an amazing thing for someone you don’t even know. You are an amazing young little boy."

Thank you once again for believing in the magic of dolls and for allowing me to show these families that the good outweighs the negative.
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Lynnea
7 months ago

Are you looking for sewers who could help make dolls?

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Elizabeth
5 months ago

How could a parent order a doll for my daughter with a large birthmark on her face, she's 3 and has painted her baby sisters face to match hers and I would love to be able to get one for her

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Stephanie
7 months ago

Would you be able to make a premature baby boy on oxygen

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Jessica
7 months ago
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Hi Amy. First, I want to thank you for putting your time & money, and heart, into making all of these! I can’t imagine how many children out there would love, & benefit from these dolls! Second, I wanted to know if I am misunderstanding something you wrote in the original story, regarding the “little girl who was transitioning”. I consider this to mean that this little girl, whether it be by name, how she would dress, or (god forbid) surgery., is actually going through some type of a sex change to become a little boy? Is this correct? You obviously have no obligation to respond, but I’d definitely appreciate it if you did. Thanks!

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Donald
7 months ago
5
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This is really from Laura, Mrs. Claus. I wanted to know the same thing as Lynnea. Especially if you are able to start your non-profit. I would love to work for it sewing these special dolls.

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Sandy
7 months ago
4
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Keep up the good work.The dolls are beautiful and you are making someone very happy.

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Claire
5 months ago
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Hello, can you send these special dolls to England? My son has a birthmark on his head since birth, he's 1 years old now and just a beautiful boy inside and out, but people can be so cruel and hurtful with their comments (I've shed a few tears). If you could get back to me I would love to have one of your dolls for my son. Kind regards Claire x

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Emmanuela
5 months ago
2
2

Hello...I think what your doing is soo inspirational and making such a difference to those children. I would like to know how I can go about ordering a doll for my daughter...I am happy to pay. She lost all her hair due to Alopecia and it is very difficult finding dolls that look like her. Thanks x

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Leslie
5 months ago
2
2

want to help you with the sewing, and, of course, pay for all the materials and shipping that are part of the project - Maybe would also be a great idea to start a program like this at Shriner's burn hospital for children!!~!!~!~

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Rahul
7 months ago
2
2

Pls help us to raise fund for my gf .. she is suffering from lgmd limbe girdle mascular dystrophy .. may be next yr gene therapy will be the cure for all mascular dytrophies ... we don' t have much money to go for it .. I can send u all the reports bt pls help us .. my name is mayank sharma from india my gf name is rama sharma she lives in dehradun uttrakhand my paypal link is Paypal.me/rahulecom1996 Pls help us pls

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Debbie
4 months ago
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I'm not having much success with my campaign, please help me by going to the GoFundMe page and type in Debbie Odle

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Loren
5 months ago
1
1

I am a person who was blessed by the support of charity that kept me close to my baby while he was recovering for surgery. God bless the people in the world that are good.

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Terry
5 months ago
1
1

Hi, hoping that your buddies are proliferating happiness everywhere. I’m still trying to send Adam’s pictures for you.

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Bella
6 months ago
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❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Denise
5 months ago

Beautiful person & beautiful soul!!

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Sandy
14 days ago

Great job Amy keep up the good work, you make a big difference in these children's lives.

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Carla
1 month ago

I have a special needs daughter that would love one of these ♥. What a great thing you are doing. And I will be donating to. Hugs.

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Joseph
2 months ago

Keep up the great work. Also, did you catch Ugly Dolls? The ending reminded me of your cause.

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Shannon
2 months ago

ma'am can you please help me out on my champagne

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Elisha-Grace
2 months ago

please check my campaign ❤️ I need tremendous help as well . thank you & god bless .

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Taryn Cohen
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My sister and I are donating in honor of my mom's 65th birthday. We love the amazing work you're doing!

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Glenn Porter
19 days ago
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I donated because I feel what Amy is doing is great part of herself. I own 2 auto repair shops and have help people in need for their car repairs. Yes indeed some have not paid me back, but that's ok. Glenn

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20 days ago
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Lynnea
7 months ago

Are you looking for sewers who could help make dolls?

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Elizabeth
5 months ago

How could a parent order a doll for my daughter with a large birthmark on her face, she's 3 and has painted her baby sisters face to match hers and I would love to be able to get one for her

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Stephanie
7 months ago

Would you be able to make a premature baby boy on oxygen

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Jessica
7 months ago
7
7

Hi Amy. First, I want to thank you for putting your time & money, and heart, into making all of these! I can’t imagine how many children out there would love, & benefit from these dolls! Second, I wanted to know if I am misunderstanding something you wrote in the original story, regarding the “little girl who was transitioning”. I consider this to mean that this little girl, whether it be by name, how she would dress, or (god forbid) surgery., is actually going through some type of a sex change to become a little boy? Is this correct? You obviously have no obligation to respond, but I’d definitely appreciate it if you did. Thanks!

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Donald
7 months ago
5
5

This is really from Laura, Mrs. Claus. I wanted to know the same thing as Lynnea. Especially if you are able to start your non-profit. I would love to work for it sewing these special dolls.

+ Read More
Sandy
7 months ago
4
4

Keep up the good work.The dolls are beautiful and you are making someone very happy.

+ Read More
Claire
5 months ago
2
2

Hello, can you send these special dolls to England? My son has a birthmark on his head since birth, he's 1 years old now and just a beautiful boy inside and out, but people can be so cruel and hurtful with their comments (I've shed a few tears). If you could get back to me I would love to have one of your dolls for my son. Kind regards Claire x

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Emmanuela
5 months ago
2
2

Hello...I think what your doing is soo inspirational and making such a difference to those children. I would like to know how I can go about ordering a doll for my daughter...I am happy to pay. She lost all her hair due to Alopecia and it is very difficult finding dolls that look like her. Thanks x

+ Read More
Leslie
5 months ago
2
2

want to help you with the sewing, and, of course, pay for all the materials and shipping that are part of the project - Maybe would also be a great idea to start a program like this at Shriner's burn hospital for children!!~!!~!~

+ Read More
Rahul
7 months ago
2
2

Pls help us to raise fund for my gf .. she is suffering from lgmd limbe girdle mascular dystrophy .. may be next yr gene therapy will be the cure for all mascular dytrophies ... we don' t have much money to go for it .. I can send u all the reports bt pls help us .. my name is mayank sharma from india my gf name is rama sharma she lives in dehradun uttrakhand my paypal link is Paypal.me/rahulecom1996 Pls help us pls

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Debbie
4 months ago
1
1

I'm not having much success with my campaign, please help me by going to the GoFundMe page and type in Debbie Odle

+ Read More
Loren
5 months ago
1
1

I am a person who was blessed by the support of charity that kept me close to my baby while he was recovering for surgery. God bless the people in the world that are good.

+ Read More
Terry
5 months ago
1
1

Hi, hoping that your buddies are proliferating happiness everywhere. I’m still trying to send Adam’s pictures for you.

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Bella
6 months ago
1
1

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Denise
5 months ago

Beautiful person & beautiful soul!!

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Sandy
14 days ago

Great job Amy keep up the good work, you make a big difference in these children's lives.

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Carla
1 month ago

I have a special needs daughter that would love one of these ♥. What a great thing you are doing. And I will be donating to. Hugs.

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Joseph
2 months ago

Keep up the great work. Also, did you catch Ugly Dolls? The ending reminded me of your cause.

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Shannon
2 months ago

ma'am can you please help me out on my champagne

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Elisha-Grace
2 months ago

please check my campaign ❤️ I need tremendous help as well . thank you & god bless .

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