Reunited after 25yrs now cancer

We fell in love 31 yrs ago& had a beautiful baby girl 26 years ago but we split up. Hadn't seen each other in 25 years..we found each other again didn't miss a beat ..we knew from the moment we spoke we still loved each other!My daughter & I went to see her dad in Canada & we reunited as a family only to learn of my sweet Perrys struggle with cancer in the past while all alone & wasnt supposed to live ..he barely made it but he did..we're so thankful he won that battle.
We made plans to marry & started the long expensive process of filing our k 1 visa .Perry is Canadian &I am American .We plan to move him to Al get married & live happily ever after..only the Dr recenyly found more cancer.Perry will need 35 daily radiation treatments  & 3 chemo treatments spaced several wks apart but he will get those on the same days that he  gets his radiation treatments.He will also need Iv's for several hours each day following his chemo treatments.Its gonna be rough on him.He has had cancer in the past but didnt have chemo or radiation Perry is still living in Canada alone & we were told he wont be able to work after treatment starts & he will be very sick & unable to care for himself & get to daily treatments mon-fri we do have many friends offering to get him to his treatments & help however they can..we're  so thankful!There's also some home health that we should be able to implement & some home treatments aswell ..seperate than the daily ones at the treatment center.
  We  still have 2 households to keep up through this as well as were still working on things to continue the visa process to be able to get him here with his family.I will also try to take 2-3 wks leave off work to go take care of him.I don't have that much time off with pay coming to me .It kills me not to be there for the entire length of treatment this will take & he will still be sick & weak for possibly months after. It's unfortunate that money or lack of it  keeps me from being able to be there the whole time but I will be there as much as I can.Everything has been happening at the exact same time...We need help with his living expenses & travel expenses for me to be able to go help him through his treatment.We're still working on  the visa process & Perry will have to make a trip to Montreal to have an interview & get his visa so we can get married & he can come to live with us ..this will be  not too long after his treatment  is over. We're looking forward to  living the rest of our lives together for   however many yrs God will bless us with.Our hearts long to be together living a normal daily life & making memories with our kids & grandkids.He also has 2 fur babies he loves dearly & he lives in an apartment & needs me there to help with them when hes at his worst....we live daily longing to be together..we have so many yrs to make up for...Sincerely grateful for any help we can get...
Julie  & Perry