#saveMickey

Please help me save my son from abuse from his mother and her family.  

This is the story about a 9 year old boy.  

 

He has had so much trauma

Over the last few years, that he

no longer wants to see his

Mother or sister. 

 

It has been this way for a

long time.  

 

His mother thinks I have been telling

Him to say these things.  And to cohere

Him to not be around his mother.

I want to let everyone know that this has been

My life for the last year of trying desperately to

Get help for my family. 

 

I never thought his own mother would go out of her way

To cover this up.

 

She would never give me the names of the people

That she knew were coming to the house.

Or were around my son.

And when My son told her these men were hurting him,

She  kept it a secret from me.

 

She even sided with her daughter that it

Was nothing. 

Her daughter has been a drug user since she moved into

Our apartment.  

 

I was told nothing of this.  And We had strict rules of having

Men in the home.  All of them were broken by Lisa and

Her daughter. 

She knew there was a problem when my son started

Performing sexual acts with his younger cousins.   

 

His Aunt and Family blames me instead of nephews who were responsible or her mother that was always with him when the molestation of the children occurred.  

He witnessed these things a few years ago when his sister was being

Molested by her cousins coming over while her mother just watched tv in the living room while they played in the play house in back and in the bedroom.   Odd place to play if you ask me for a 18 year old boy and a 11 & 8 year old girl?   

 

His mother has NEVER done anything about any of the dangerous situations that have happened over the years.  And this is just the tip of the iceberg.

 

Now my son is traumatized by what he saw and had to go through.

And no one at CPS or Child Welfare seems to care. 

 

His mother does not care that he was sick for months, and even goes against doctors, and hides information from the doctors and me.   Stating that I could not handle it.

She has known this has been going on all along. And so have her friends on Facebook, and her family.

Even her Pastor Allen has known and has decided to do nothing about it. 

 

Everyone wants to wonder why his mother should not be allowed to have visitation with my son. 

She has put him in danger so many times, and never has even done anything about it.

My son has been having nightmares, and she just says I am the liar.  Well…

 

This time, I decided to record one of his events this morning.

I wish I could say I was the person that said enough is enough.     But my son was the reason why I chose to stand behind him.   Sad, but true. 

 

If it was not for my son standing up to his mother, I would have never been able to really understand just how bad things for him really were. 

 

For the last year, Mickey has been having these nightmares, and they have been getting worse. 

This morning, at about 4am, he woke up and was doing something alarming.  I woke up to my son kneeling like a dog, and  shaking his head around murmuring something.

I think he was still not awake yet, but acting out his nightmare.

 

Over the past months, I have had to deal with a frightened boy that begged me for him not to go with his mom or his older sister.

 

After I consoled him this morning, got him some water, and calmed him down, I decided I would recorded what he was saying.  

 

The room was very dark, and it was about 4am in the morning.   But the sound is pretty clear. 

 

Please listen to my son as he tries to talk about what he was dealing with. 

 

The part where he tried to keep the boys from getting into his room was heartbreaking to hear.

 

He has said to me and others that these Men over the age of 18 have hurt him.     And then he goes on to wondering why when telling his mother, she decided not to do anything, and let him be in the care of his sister, and around these older men even after his please to his mother. 

 

He says all the time that his mother chose Ashly and her drugs over me.    Many times he has told me that Mom lies a lot.   And has told this to his doctor when seeking care.  

 

The doctor was very clear to me that he should not be over there.   Or around his sister.    Even stating that his mother sounded like she was an alcoholic. 

 

With a long history of sexual abuse in her entire family, and what has happened to his sister, and him.  I cannot let him be put in anymore of these dangerous situations by his own mother and family.

 

Its odd that everyone thinks I am overacting.   Well, you are welcome to your opinion. 

 

So I will just let a 9 year old boy try to tell you why he no longer wants to be around his mother or his sister. 

 

And then maybe you will understand, this is not about a relationship that ended.  This is not about being cheated on, or being treated badly or getting back at someone.  

 

This is about a now 9 year old boy that has been abused, and been made to witness sex acts, and violence that a little boy should never have had to go through. 

 

I can’t say anything about his 2 sisters.   But I can tell you, when I was around, it was always an argument over their safety and wellbeing.  

 

Now to find out that she only cares about making sure she can still expose her son to these kids of dangerous people and situations, I can only hope that some of you out there really begin to see just how vital it is that his mother not be allowed to continue with the cycle of abuse she has been allowing all these years. 

 

When you watch this video of my son, remember, he has seen his sisters molested by Lisa’s cousin Nephews.

  Has came home to catch another one trying to have intercourse with her daughter, and just of late, refused to prosecute, or even stop her own daughter from being molested by a 37 year old man.  

 

This is not something I take lightly.  When I asked about why she did not tell me, she told me that she did not want me to go to jail? 

 

What was really going on, was even more tainted then once can even imagine.  

Drugs, have been a part of this equation for a long time.     And this is the thing I missed all these years. 

 

My friends would tell me there was a problem, but as long as I had her telling me she loved me, and she was not doing those things, I could live with that version of the truth.   

She was actually seemed annoyed  that her daughter was getting attention from the same man that had been having intercourse with her daughter.   

 

It’s funny she admitted this to my sister when she lived with her.   Now I have to wonder.   How much more was there. 

 

So as you watch this, please understand, I have had no help from CPS.  Little to no help from Investigators, or other family members from her side.

 

It’s all been swept under the rug. 

 

My son will NEVER have to deal with this kind of abuse again if I have anything to do with it.     I will not let it happen.  But if you choose to ignore all of the warning signs, all of the documented cases of abuse, then. I have no pity for you.   

I guess her friends on Facebook really support her having custody of her kids.  Who cares they all kept getting abused while in her care.  Even when she was right in the same home!

 

Children are the most precious thing in the world.  To allow this kind of thing to happen to your own children…   I don’t know of a more horrific crime against the most innocent of humanity. 

 

I hope you watch this and understand that this little boy here is not just mad at his mother, he is disappointed at me for letting this happen to him.  

I hope he understands that I have tried everything I could to keep him safe.   I just did not know just how bad things really were. 

 

This is the story about a 9 year old boy.    And its a story of a father trying despreatly to protect his son.