20yr Military Retirement Ceremony

After 20 years of service, I am closing out a wonderful, exciting and rewarding career with the US Air Force. Due to the all the cuts made over the years, the items that were previously provided by the units are no longer given. The ceremony, the cake, the shadow box commemorating the service, framed certificates, as well as other misc expenses are all now on the retiring member. I'm looking for some assistance to help offset my out of pocket expenses. Any help is greatly appreciated!! - Ceremony slated for October 25th, 2013