Get Savannah And Kj Back With Mommy

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Raised by 14 people in 28 months
My name is Heaven. I met Kelly when I was 14yrs old. I came from a broken home and thought love was all I needed from a boy. Little did I know what was so sweet in the beginning could turn into a brown-eyed monster who would lie, cheat, take and constantly knock me down about myself. Kelly was always a great provider, but made it clear he was the superior one in the relationship. He never added me to health insurance after we were married or to bank accounts because he wanted all the control. After years of him constantly making choices for me, and controlling every aspect of my life I decided I wanted something more. I wanted to be happy and raise my kids without always being screamed at, without them being called names, and actually spend time together without him making it seem ridiculous or a waste of time.On January 4th I told him I was done and wanted a divorce. As I began to exert my independence and make my feelings known in a way he couldn’t ignore, Kelly asked me to leave the house because "he couldn't stand to look at me and it was his house." So I left. I took my two kids and stayed with a friend where Kelly continued to pick at me for my failures in life or beg me to come back. Kelly and I are now in the middle of divorcing and due to the fact I stopped my life so he could have his I never got my license (he always struck down the Idea). I never finished school (he needed someone to take care of Joesph so he could go to school). And I had no job (because in his words the woman should stay home, cook, clean and raise kids).Due to not having what I need his lawyer and Kelly saw that as a great reason as to why he should have the children, even though Kelly has never spent more than an hour or two alone with them or taken care of them. I have done it all since the day he got custody of Joesph on March 10, 2010. The judge awarded custody of our children to this man who has never parented his children a day in their lives and who has spent the past ten years controlling every aspect of mine. He has hacked into my emails and social media accounts, and since gaining custody of my children has bullied my family members into taking care of the kids or no longer talking to me. He has my oldest "adopted" son so upset all the time he wants to go back to a psychiatric hospital. Savannah begs daily to be back with me, and KJ cries for me all the time as well.I am not an unfit mother, I have my downfalls, but I'm in the process of working on myself and have extremely supportive friends and loved ones by my side helping me and encouraging me along the way. I want nothing more in this world to build my new life with my kids by my side. This is the first time in 8 years that I have ever been away from them. It's not fair, and I want them home with me where they belong.My plans are to get my license, get a job, finish school then start schooling to become a sonogram technician! I have plans but want the kids with me they should be in a home where they are loved, wanted, happy and where their parent is home with them every night - not being left with family members so dad can go out and party on a week night or run around on the weekends. I can’t do this without help. I need to be able to retain an attorney who can help me in court hearings. I need someone who knows the laws and who can help me present my side in order to best protect my kids in the longrun. Please help me keep my children with the only parent they have who has ever actually BEEN their parent. Please help me tell the man who has controlled my life for the past 10 years that it is NOT okay – that I am much stronger than he has ever given me credit for. Any help you might feel led to give would be so appreciated. ~Heaven
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We have hit the lawyer retainer!! Thank you all so much!! Hopefully we can really get things rolling now, as of right now I have an appointment with a lawyer recommended by my mother at 11am tomorrow and I am expecting divorce revision papers!! My hopes are to get kj and Savannah home as soon as possible and then fight like crazy to see what and if at all I have any chance of having Joesph as well! That being said it has been suggested that I need to raid my limit just a little with how high attorney fees can get. Again those who shared thank you so so so much and those that donated! I'll never be able to thank you enough!! I absolutely can not wait to have my kids home with me.
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No real changes cause I have yet to hear back from Kellys lawyer and he claims the same (I email and call her everyday she never responds) I wish I had my own lawyer to get through all this but at the moment I'll take what I can get..

So goal right now is to get Savannah and KJ home and settled.
Then when that's said and done I would love to be able to speak to someone to see if I have ANY legal rights to Joesph at all or if it's possible that I can get any considering I've raised the little guy since 2010.. it's not fair he and I are going to be ripped apart and I don't want my son having any more damage done to his little heart it's just not fair.. Joesph has already been in so much trouble at school and on the bus since this started I'd hate to see him go on a full downward spiral..

Please keep sharing and if at all possible donate..

Mostly keep Joe in your prayers because I have no clue how I'm gonna be able to do this and not have my oldest with me as well and because Joesph does not deserve the amount of pain this is causing him.
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Talked to the kids last night and as always they were all giggles and yet again left home with grandma while their father was running all over for another night.

Maybe it's just me but once you bring children into the world there is a time and place for running around and doing your own thing but your kids come first.. I'm just ready to have my kids home under the same roof as me... it's killing me that I won't be able to take Joesph I have no clue how to explain to him what is going on.
Here's to hoping his father won't keep him from me cause I have been the only mom that boy has ever known. I so hope he never forgets that he is and always will be my #1 boy.

And again thank you all for has donated I appreciate it so so much I need to get the kids here and in a loving home is soon as I can... please keep sharing!
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Things are looking up but I really need help meeting my goal or at least half of it by the 28th!! Please keep sharing thanks for all the help I have gotten so far!
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I am sorry I can only do 5.00! But I love you girl and you will deserve your babies.

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