Help Alyssa get back on track
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Hello,
I really don't wanna do this, because I have a thing about making it on my own, and I feel like asking for anything from anyone is more than I'm allowed... but people have told me that friends help... and I'm in over my head.
In late 2011, I was in a marriage with a girl. Her and I had life planned out, and we were considering having children. I had a stable life because I was living male. But reality is where we all should be, and when it came time to face the facts, our marriage ended there. It wasn't all bad though, because I found myself with a really good job, and things were looking up. I was still pretty lonely, and after having my spouse basically shun me into divorce, I had a hole in my heart.
I met a girl, and she made me believe she could fill the hole. I told her before the start of the relationship that I was having gender issues, and she seemed to be very accepting. She just so happened to be pregnant, and I just happened to be financially capable of taking care of both her and her child. She told me she'd get right back to work after the baby was born, and we'd both settle down somewhere, and have our white picket fence fairy tale story. There were a lot of promises made on both sides, and only mine were kept.
The next two years of my life can be summed up in 5 moves across New England and New York, endless amounts of financial hell, maxed out credit due to a Craig's List scam, job loss, vandalized vehicles, therapy, shattered nerves, adultery, endless hospital bills, and lost relationships with multiple friends and family. To top it off, she made it very clear that she was not going to allow me to transition without punishing me for it every chance she could.
I abandoned the relationship and found refuge with friends in MA(whom I'm eternally grateful to), and newly acquired family who all knew what I was going through. Since transition, I have only been able to get low paying jobs that ask for a lot of my resources to perform, and I've been relying on the people who are housing me to secure an address so I can get employment. The debt from that relationship seems endless though.
I want to get all of this out of the way. I need to get the hospital bills paid, and the debt collectors gone. But most of all, I need to get my car back on the road. I want a good paying full time job again, and I want to give back to the community that has given me so much. My girlfriend and her mother have been amazing since I moved to NH in August. I want to do this on my own, but it just seems like one thing after another while trying to get back on my feet. After 15 months of it, I'm ready to ask the community for help.
Please help me.
-Alyssa
Incentives from my small business: The Lotus Armory
The highest donation receives 2 boffer swords (specify length under 46", and red or black), and a shield of a preferred shape ($170 total value).
Second highest donation gets a boffer sword (specify length under 46", and red or black) ($60 value)
I really don't wanna do this, because I have a thing about making it on my own, and I feel like asking for anything from anyone is more than I'm allowed... but people have told me that friends help... and I'm in over my head.
In late 2011, I was in a marriage with a girl. Her and I had life planned out, and we were considering having children. I had a stable life because I was living male. But reality is where we all should be, and when it came time to face the facts, our marriage ended there. It wasn't all bad though, because I found myself with a really good job, and things were looking up. I was still pretty lonely, and after having my spouse basically shun me into divorce, I had a hole in my heart.
I met a girl, and she made me believe she could fill the hole. I told her before the start of the relationship that I was having gender issues, and she seemed to be very accepting. She just so happened to be pregnant, and I just happened to be financially capable of taking care of both her and her child. She told me she'd get right back to work after the baby was born, and we'd both settle down somewhere, and have our white picket fence fairy tale story. There were a lot of promises made on both sides, and only mine were kept.
The next two years of my life can be summed up in 5 moves across New England and New York, endless amounts of financial hell, maxed out credit due to a Craig's List scam, job loss, vandalized vehicles, therapy, shattered nerves, adultery, endless hospital bills, and lost relationships with multiple friends and family. To top it off, she made it very clear that she was not going to allow me to transition without punishing me for it every chance she could.
I abandoned the relationship and found refuge with friends in MA(whom I'm eternally grateful to), and newly acquired family who all knew what I was going through. Since transition, I have only been able to get low paying jobs that ask for a lot of my resources to perform, and I've been relying on the people who are housing me to secure an address so I can get employment. The debt from that relationship seems endless though.
I want to get all of this out of the way. I need to get the hospital bills paid, and the debt collectors gone. But most of all, I need to get my car back on the road. I want a good paying full time job again, and I want to give back to the community that has given me so much. My girlfriend and her mother have been amazing since I moved to NH in August. I want to do this on my own, but it just seems like one thing after another while trying to get back on my feet. After 15 months of it, I'm ready to ask the community for help.
Please help me.
-Alyssa
Incentives from my small business: The Lotus Armory
The highest donation receives 2 boffer swords (specify length under 46", and red or black), and a shield of a preferred shape ($170 total value).
Second highest donation gets a boffer sword (specify length under 46", and red or black) ($60 value)
Organizer
Alyssa Marion
Organizer
Milton, NH
